SPIRITUALITY AND HEALTH
ABSTRACT
Spirituality is being of the
spirit and is a devotion to the metaphysical matters and activities, which
renew, uplift, comfort, heal, and inspire in others and us with whom we
interact. It is the development of True Divine being to the point that one’s
spirit is developed to the Holy Spirit of God through Sabd;
ਸੋ ਬੂਝੈ ਜਿਸੁ ਆਪਿਬੁਝਾਏ ਗੁਰ ਕੈ ਸਬਦਿ ਸੁ ਮੁਕਤੁ ਭਇਆ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਤਾਰੇ ਤਾਰਣਹਾਰਾ ਹਉਮੈ ਦੂਜਾ ਪਰਹਰਿਆ ॥
So Boojhai Jis Aap Bujha-ay Gur Kai Sabad So Mukat Bhayia, Nānak ṯārė ṯāraṇhārā haumai ḏūjā parhariā.
One alone understands whom the God
inspires to understand. Through the Word of the Guru's Sabd, one is liberated.-----Guru Nanak, Raag Ramkali, AGGS, Page 941-1
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True spirituality is achieved by
logically applying teachings incorporated in Sabd Guru that allow ego to vanish
in the fire of Divine love and fear. A true Guru, who has achieved oneness with
God, can only give such true spiritual teachings. The purpose of developing our
spirituality is to be free of spiritual ignorance, free of selfish or
destructive behavioral patterns and free to return to our eternal home in God.
One’s mind becomes enlightened by attaching to the word and spirit of the
Gurbani as expressed by Guru Nanak in Raag Sorath;
ਅੰਤਰਿ ਜੋਤਿ ਨਿਰੰਤਰਿ ਬਾਣੀ ਸਾਚੇ ਸਾਹਿਬ ਸਿਉ ਲਿਵ ਲਾਈ ॥
ਅਸੰਖ ਬੈਰਾਗੀ ਕਹਹਿ ਬੈਰਾਗ ਸੋ ਬੈਰਾਗੀ ਜਿ ਖਸਮੈ ਭਾਵੈ ॥
Antar Joat Niranter Baani Saachay Sahib Seo Liv Layee, AsaNkh Bairaagee Kaheh Bairaag So Bairaagee Je Khasmai Bhaavai.
God's Light shines continually
within the nucleus of deepest self; I am lovingly attached to the Sabd, the
Word of the True Master. Countless detached renunciates talk of detachment and
renunciation, but he alone is a true renunciate, who is pleasing to the Husband
God.------Guru
Nanak, Raag Sorath, AGGS, Page 634-10
We are not saints but should be
willing to grow along spiritual lines to claim spiritual progress rather
spiritual perfection. Spirituality is the way you find meaning, hope,
comfort and inner peace in your life. Many people find spirituality through
religion, some find it through music, art or a connection with nature, and
others find it in their values and principles. However, it seems the body, mind
and spirit are connected. The health of any one of these elements seems to
affect the health.
There is no absolute scientific
proof of the presence of The Absolute Principle or the Infinite God; henceforth
the God’s subtle essence cannot be obtained by any one. Religion and science
will always clash due to perceived insults to the research and rationality by
fundamentalists and non progressive individuals. Spirituality was the domain of
the faith but lately science has developed with close alignment. Science ends,
when reason fails but spirituality is there all the time. God cannot be
completely contained with in nature and therefore God’s existence is out side
the science’s ability to weigh in. Scientists are not blind believers but make
a critical analysis of the evidence, quite opposite to the religious approach
based on blind faith and belief. On the other hand because something is vastly
improbable, we need a God to explain it. Since we are profoundly ignorant about
certain things we need to work on them like understanding the physiology of
conscience to reduce human suffering of pain and depression.
Can the religion stand up to
the progress of science is the main question?
Religion and science can co-exist
with a little tolerance and rationality and mutual respect, humans should enjoy
the strides of science, while enjoying the comforts provided by being humble
towards that unfathomable, incomprehensible Higher Power. One can be spiritual
by subjugating the lower instincts of Lust, Anger, Greed, Attachment, and Ego
with further development of the virtues of Truth, Compassion, Contentment, and
Faith in the existence of Higher Power, and Fortitude.
ਆਪੁ ਗਵਾਇ ਸੇਵਾ ਕਰੇ ਤਾ ਕਿਛੁ ਪਾਏ ਮਾਨੁ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਜਿਸ ਨੋ ਲਗਾ ਤਿਸੁ ਮਿਲੈ ਲਗਾ ਸੋ ਪਰਵਾਨੁ ॥
Aap Gavaa-ey Sayva Karay Ta Kich Paa-ay Maan, Nanak Jis No Lagaa Tis Milai Lagaa So Parwaan.
ਨਾਨਕ ਜਿਸ ਨੋ ਲਗਾ ਤਿਸੁ ਮਿਲੈ ਲਗਾ ਸੋ ਪਰਵਾਨੁ ॥
Aap Gavaa-ey Sayva Karay Ta Kich Paa-ay Maan, Nanak Jis No Lagaa Tis Milai Lagaa So Parwaan.
If one eliminates his self-conceit and
then performs service, he shall be honored. O Nanak, if he merges with the one
with whom he is attached, his attachment becomes acceptable.------Guru
Angad, Raag Asa, AGGS, Page 474-10
The highest spiritual achievement ever made is by spiritual
awakening of the mind with spiritual wisdom. Spiritual awakening causes a
change in personality, which manifests itself in many different forms of the
"educational variety". It develops slowly over a period of time and
often it is the others, who become aware of the difference in personality long
before the individual recognizes himself.
ਗਿਆਨ ਰਤਨੁ ਮਨਿ ਪਰਗਟੁ ਭਇਆ ॥
ਨਾਮੁ ਪਦਾਰਥੁ ਸਹਜੇ ਲਇਆ ॥
ਨਾਮੁ ਪਦਾਰਥੁ ਸਹਜੇ ਲਇਆ ॥
Gian Rattan Man Paragatt Bheiaa, Naam Padaarath Sehjay La-i-aa.
The jewel of spiritual wisdom is
revealed with in the mind. The wealth of the Naam is easily,
intuitively received.-----Guru Ram Das, Raag Maru, AGGS,
Page, 1069-15
The individual finally realizes that he has undergone a profound
alteration in his reaction to life that such a change could hardly have been
brought about by him alone. What often takes place in a few months could seldom
have been accomplished by years of self-discipline. The individual has tapped
an unsuspected inner resource, which he identifies with his own conception of a
Power greater than himself. He is the same but he is not the same.
Accepting cosmic wholeness, in turn, entails trust and confidence in a source
of goodness and beauty, a hub of ultimate coherence that holds together the
diverging spokes of individual existence, a center of love and justice that
validates our intuited claims to the dignity of the human person.
Any spiritual advantage by doing good
deeds is lost by becoming proud of the deeds performed or requesting a reward
in return:
ਅਹੰਬੁਧਿ ਕਰਮ ਕਮਾਵਨੇ ॥
ਗ੍ਰਿਹ ਬਾਲੂ ਨੀਰਿ ਬਹਾਵਨੇ ॥
AhaN-buDh Karam Kamaavanay, Garih Baaloo Neer Bahaavanay.
ਗ੍ਰਿਹ ਬਾਲੂ ਨੀਰਿ ਬਹਾਵਨੇ ॥
AhaN-buDh Karam Kamaavanay, Garih Baaloo Neer Bahaavanay.
Good deeds done in the
pride of ego are swept away, like the house of sand by water.-----Guru Arjan, Raag Gauri, AGGS, Page,
211-3
ਧਰਮੀ
ਧਰਮੁ ਕਰਹਿ ਗਾਵਾਵਹਿ ਮੰਗਹਿ ਮੋਖ ਦੁਆਰੁ ॥
ਜਤੀ ਸਦਾਵਹਿ ਜੁਗਤਿ ਨ ਜਾਣਹਿ ਛਡਿ ਬਹਹਿ ਘਰ ਬਾਰੁ ॥
Ḏẖarmī ḏẖaram karahi gāvāvėh mangėh mokẖ ḏu▫ār.Jaṯī saḏāvėh jugaṯ na jāṇėh cẖẖad bahėh gẖar bār.
ਜਤੀ ਸਦਾਵਹਿ ਜੁਗਤਿ ਨ ਜਾਣਹਿ ਛਡਿ ਬਹਹਿ ਘਰ ਬਾਰੁ ॥
Ḏẖarmī ḏẖaram karahi gāvāvėh mangėh mokẖ ḏu▫ār.Jaṯī saḏāvėh jugaṯ na jāṇėh cẖẖad bahėh gẖar bār.
The righteous waste their
righteousness, by asking for the door of salvation. They call themselves
celibate, and abandon their homes, but they do not know the true way of life.-----Guru Nanak,
Raag Asa, AGGS, Page, 469-3
Spiritual experience may be called
“transcendence,” “bliss” or “ecstasy”. This makes one healthier, happier, and
can even lengthen the lifespan. This all happens for a reason - there are no
accidents, no coincidences, and no mistakes and logic is necessary to
understand all of this.
ਸਤਿ ਸਰੂਪੁ ਰਿਦੈ ਜਿਨਿ ਮਾਨਿਆ ॥
ਕਰਨ ਕਰਾਵਨ ਤਿਨਿ ਮੂਲੁ ਪਛਾਨਿਆ ॥
ਜਾ ਕੈ ਰਿਦੈ ਬਿਸ੍ਵਾਸੁ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਆਇਆ ॥
ਤਤੁ ਗਿਆਨੁ ਤਿਸੁ ਮਨਿ ਪ੍ਰਗਟਾਇਆ ॥
ਕਰਨ ਕਰਾਵਨ ਤਿਨਿ ਮੂਲੁ ਪਛਾਨਿਆ ॥
ਜਾ ਕੈ ਰਿਦੈ ਬਿਸ੍ਵਾਸੁ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਆਇਆ ॥
ਤਤੁ ਗਿਆਨੁ ਤਿਸੁ ਮਨਿ ਪ੍ਰਗਟਾਇਆ ॥
Sat Saroop Ridai Jin Maaniaa, Karan
Karaavan Tin Mool Pachaaniaa,Ja Kai Ridai Bisvaas Prabh Aaeiaa, Tutt Giaan Tis
Man Pargattaaeiaa.
One who believes in the Embodiment of Truth with all his
heart recognizes the Cause of causes as the Root of all. One whose heart is
filled with faith in God, the essence of spiritual wisdom is revealed to his
mind.-----Guru Arjan, Raag Gauri, AGGS, Page, 285
On the other side some of us may
not believe that there is a God, but could consider it as Good Orderly
Direction. "Can you see the difference between putting a little bit
of Good Orderly Direction into your life, instead of trying to live life in the
totally chaotic, disorganized fashion you are attempting now?
God cannot be intellectualized.
God’s presence can only be felt by an individual through a spiritual experience
in a belief system that allows for the possibility that there may be an
Unconditionally Loving Higher Power - a God-Force, Unfathomable metaphysical
Energy, Great Spirit, whatever it is called - which is powerful enough to
insure that everything is unfolding perfectly from a Cosmic perspective in the
mind of the individual.
ਅਵਿਗਤਿ ਗਤਿ ਅਗਾਧ ਬੋਧਿ ਅਕਥ ਕਥਾ ਅਸਗਾਹ ਅਪਾਰੀ ।
ਸਹਨਿ ਅਵਟਣੁ ਪਰਉਪਕਾਰੀ ।
ਸਹਨਿ ਅਵਟਣੁ ਪਰਉਪਕਾਰੀ ।
Avagati Gati Agaadhi Bodhi Akath Katha
Asgaah Apaari.Sahan Avtan Perupkari
To
have knowledge of the dynamism of that unmanifest God is a very deep
experience, and to say something of that ineffable God is a Herculean task.
Only Guru Oriented suffer while doing good to others.----Bhai
Gurdas, Vaar 11, Pauri 2
It is important to understand
that there is a Higher Power than us, which is the voice of Divine in man, or it is the teaching of
men who have progressed spiritually and their mind has become one with the
Higher Consciousness within. It is a waste of time in arguing with people who do not want to be
convinced about the presence of that Higher Power and spirituality, which is
new to their limited outlook. One can be
spiritual with out belonging to a religion by development of morality. Bhai Gurdas
writes a dialogue of Guru Nanak with the hajji in his Vaar 1;
ਪੁਛਨਿ ਫੋਲਿ ਕਿਤਾਬ ਨੋ ਹਿੰਦੂ ਵਡਾ ਕਿ ਮੁਸਲਮਾਨੋਈ ?
ਬਾਬਾ ਆਖੇ ਹਾਜੀਆ ਸੁਭਿ ਅਮਲਾ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਦੋਨੋ ਰੋਈ ।
ਬਾਬਾ ਆਖੇ ਹਾਜੀਆ ਸੁਭਿ ਅਮਲਾ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਦੋਨੋ ਰੋਈ ।
Puchan Foal Kitam No Hindu Vadda Kay
Musalmano-ee? Baba Aakhay Haajia Sunbh Amlan Bajoh Dono Ro-ee.
Guru Nanak was questioned to open and search in his book
whether Hindu is great or the Muslim? Baba replied to the pilgrim Hajji’s that
with out good deeds and morality both will have to weep and wail.-----Bhai Gurdas, Vaar 1, Pauri,
33- 3, 4
Spiritual progress needs individual action:
- Faith with out action is dead.
- Evolvement of character is the first thing.
- Aim is to become better human.
By subjugating the Lower Instincts:
- Lust.
- Anger.
- Greed.
- Attachment.
- Ego.
By development of Virtues/Higher Instincts;
- Truth.
- Compassion.
- Contentment.
- Faith in Existence of God.
- Fortitude.
With out faith there is no meditation. With out Truth
there is no credit and with out capital no balance. The best act is
Philanthropy (desire to help mankind), with out which human birth is accursed.
Alms, gifts, penance and sacrifices are not equal to Philanthropy.
Truth is a comprehensive term that in all of its nuances
(meaning) implies accuracy and honesty. It is considered to be the supreme reality and to have the
ultimate meaning and value of existence. The study of Truth is part of
philosophical and epistemology (study of nature). Falsehood is an offensive
weapon, while truth is a defensive armor. Truth is above all and above Truth is Truthful conduct. Truth and rigorous honesty are the only tonics to
invigorate the mind towards right thought. Truth is discovered, recognized and
then lived and realized by mind.
ਕਹੁ ਨਾਨਕ ਸਚੁ ਧਿਆਈਐ ॥
ਸੁਚਿ ਹੋਵੈ ਤਾ ਸਚੁ ਪਾਈਐ ॥
Kaho
Nānak sacẖ ḏẖiāīai, Sucẖ hovai ṯā sacẖ pāīai.
Says Nanak, meditate on the True God, and if you are pure (inner cleanliness), you will obtain the
Truth (God).-----Guru Nanak Raag Asa, AGGS, Page, 472-3, 4
Truth is the only source of all
Cosmic and mundane riches. Truth is its own reward. It builds him, who builds
on it. A well-trained mind, trained to Truth concentrated on living and realizing
is the need of every individual. God is a spirit in Truth. To know truth,
really one has to become with it. To tread that path one has to become the path
himself. For the truly faithful, no miracle is necessary, but for those who
doubt, no miracle is sufficient. Truthful living is not easy. One day I asked
my wife that let us try living truthfully. In next few minutes telephone rings
and the number on the caller I.D. identified the caller. I did not want to talk
to the caller so I blurted to my wife to tell him, I am not home and that was
the end of truthful living.
ਮਨਹਠ
ਬੁਧੀ ਕੇਤੀਆ ਕੇਤੇ ਬੇਦ ਬੀਚਾਰ ॥
ਕੇਤੇ ਬੰਧਨ ਜੀਅ ਕੇ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਮੋਖ ਦੁਆਰ ॥
ਸਚਹੁ ਓਰੈ ਸਭੁ ਕੋ ਉਪਰਿ ਸਚੁ ਆਚਾਰੁ ॥
Manhaṯẖ buḏẖī keṯī▫ā keṯe beḏ bīcẖār. Keṯe banḏẖan jī▫a ke gurmukẖ mokẖ ḏu▫ār. Sacẖahu orai sabẖ ko upar sacẖ ācẖār.
ਕੇਤੇ ਬੰਧਨ ਜੀਅ ਕੇ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਮੋਖ ਦੁਆਰ ॥
ਸਚਹੁ ਓਰੈ ਸਭੁ ਕੋ ਉਪਰਿ ਸਚੁ ਆਚਾਰੁ ॥
Manhaṯẖ buḏẖī keṯī▫ā keṯe beḏ bīcẖār. Keṯe banḏẖan jī▫a ke gurmukẖ mokẖ ḏu▫ār. Sacẖahu orai sabẖ ko upar sacẖ ācẖār.
There are so many stubborn-minded intelligent people, and so
many who contemplate the Vedas (Hindu Scriptures). There are so many
entanglements for the soul. Only as Guru oriented do we find the Gate of
Liberation. Truth is higher than everything; but higher still is truthful
living.-----Guru
Nanak, Siri Raag, AGGS, Page, 62-11
Spiritual emergence is the process
of personal awakening into a level of perceiving and functioning, beyond normal
ego function. The process may at first include acceptance of a personal prayer
with an increasing
awareness of the spiritual dimension in one's life and in the universal scheme
of things. This leads to among the positive
effects of this process with increased creativity, feelings of peace by
relieving stress, an expanded sense of compassion, and a sense of deeper
connection with other people, nature, and the cosmos.
The purpose of developing
spirituality is to be free of spiritual ignorance, free of selfish or
destructive behavioral patterns and help individuals to wake up and heal in
their body, mind, and soul.
Spiritual progress with belief in
prayer and meditation help an individual’s health through giving, receiving,
sharing, peace, and focusing the attention to one’s Higher Power/God/Self. It leads to elevating the self at a higher
plane of existence, which is spiritual living in action.
In order to heal
and restore balance, one should heal emotionally, mentally, physically, and
spiritually. The whole purpose of spirituality is to facilitate love,
compassion, patience, tolerance, humility, forgiveness.
These affirmations can change for the better at a very deep
level of one’s being given the right to experience peace, joy, happiness, and a
gift to serve others by living at one’s highest potential, which in fact is the
realization of one’s Divine spiritual nature by being able to see God in all.
Spirituality Works Through:
- Giving through compassion, love, with positive attitude, and tolerance.
- Receiving through prayer and meditation.
- Sharing:-
a) With acceptance.
b) Gratitude.
c) Humility.
d) Selfless service.
e) With Fortitude.
Compassion is when a person is moved by the suffering or distress of
another, and by the desire to relieve it. Compassion is empathy, not sympathy –
identification with and understanding of another’s situation, feelings, and
motives through love.
ਸਬਦੰ ਰਤੰ ਹਿਤੰ ਮਇਆ ਕੀਰਤੰ ਕਲੀ ਕਰਮ ਕ੍ਰਿਤੁਆ ॥
ਮਿਟੰਤਿ ਤਤ੍ਰਾਗਤ ਭਰਮ ਮੋਹੰ ॥
To be
imbued and attuned to the Word of the Sabd; to be kind and compassionate; to sing the Praises of
God - these are the most worthwhile actions in this Dark Age. In
this way, one's inner doubts and emotional attachments are dispelled.-----Guru
Arjan, Sloke Sahskirti, AGGS, Page, 1354-11
The healing process consists of letting go, which in turn requires
forgiveness and compassion. Compassion is the highest vibration of the elastic
relative Law of Tolerance, under the Principle of Equilibrium. There is karma
of the brain, where the body physically rewards acts of kindness and
forgiveness.
“The remarkable bottom line of the science of love is that giving protects overall health twice as much as Aspirin protects against heart disease.”
Spirituality
is a force, which pulls the soul upwards to unite it with God, and the force of
lower instincts drags it down in to the meshes of mind and matter. The Law of
compassion deals with the blessings of mercy bestowed on them to be passed on
to others. Compassion is the keen awareness of
the interdependence of all things. Compassion is not sentiment but is making
justice and doing works of mercy. Compassion is not a moral commandment but a
flow and overflow of the fullest human and divine energies. The
omnipotent God is all love and compassion.
ਦ੍ਰਿਸਟਿ
ਧਾਰਿ ਮਨਿ ਤਨਿ ਵਸੈ ਦਇਆਲ ਪੁਰਖੁ ਮਿਹਰਵਾਨੁ ॥
ਜੀਉ ਪਿੰਡੁ ਧਨੁ ਤਿਸ ਦਾ ਹਉ ਸਦਾ ਸਦਾ ਕੁਰਬਾਨੁ ॥੩॥
ਜੀਉ ਪਿੰਡੁ ਧਨੁ ਤਿਸ ਦਾ ਹਉ ਸਦਾ ਸਦਾ ਕੁਰਬਾਨੁ ॥੩॥
Dirsatt Dhaar Man Tan Vasai Daiaal Purakh
Meharvaan Jī▫o pind ḏẖan ṯis
ḏā ha▫o saḏā saḏā kurbān. ||3|.
Blessing
us with Its Glance of Grace, the Kind and Compassionate, All-powerful
God comes to dwell within the mind and body. My soul, body and wealth forever and ever all God’s, & I
am a sacrifice to God. ||3||-----Guru
Arjan, Siri Raag, AGGS, Page, 49-3
You want to make others
happy, practice compassion and if you want to make your–self happy practice
compassion. -----Dalai Lama
Compassion is the basis of morality. A good heart is better
than all the heads in the world. With out a rich heart, wealth is an ugly
beggar.
A human
being is a part of the whole called by us universe, a part limited in time and
space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feeling as some thing separated
from the rest, a kind of optical illusion of his consciousness. We should free
ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all
living creatures.------Albert
Einstein.
One must make an honest effort to
raise the lower nature. Lower self has to die to its desires and passions and
rise in to the higher life of spirit and love. Love is the motivating force to
experience our higher conscience or God in our self. God is full of love and
compassion. Many benefits of health, greater happiness, and enhanced peace of
mind ensue by its activation. Helping other people can aid in personal relaxation and stress as well.
In
providing health services, the health personal should consider compassion as
the ultimate and most meaningful embodiment of emotional maturity. It is
through compassion that a person achieves the highest peak and deepest reach in
his or her search for self-fulfillment in helping others. When you begin to touch a heart
or let your heart be touched, you begin to discover that it is bottomless, and
you begin to discover how much warmth and gentleness is there, as well as how
much space to provide comfort, which may be called bed side manners in medical
lingo.
Caring for patients is more than just the administration of treatment and
medication. Anyone choosing a career in the health sector has a basic desire to
make a difference and to help those who are unwell. Compassion has always been an instinctive
component of healthcare professionals’ approach to looking after their
patients. However, in more recent times
the ability to stop and take a few minutes to chat with a patient has become
increasingly difficult with high work loads being experienced by all
staff. In addition, the current medical
climate does not encourage staff to get to know their patients beyond their
immediate medical needs. In many cases, staffs are discouraged from getting
emotionally involved with patients and their families. As a consequence
compassion in healthcare has become devalued as the health services become more
impersonal.
On the flip
side, there are also many, many stories from healthcare professionals of the
positive impact on their own lives of bringing open-hearted compassion to the
care of patients and families. The
practice of compassion benefits the giver as much as the receiver. A holistic
approach to healthcare provision enhances the quality of care and the patients’
wellbeing. A case comes to mind; who was first seen by me about 40 years ago
with stage D cancer of the prostate meaning cancer was well spread all over the
body. He questioned me about the prognosis of his disease and how long he is
going to live. I answered that statistically in cases like him he has about six
months to live. He replied that he has faith in the God and he is going to
defeat the statistical prognosis. He did live more than two years and thus
proving the effect of spirituality in prolonging the life span with a positive
attitude.
However, Compassion as a word
does not appear in the Patient Code of Rights or anywhere within the Hospital’s
Health code of practice. Compassion is the humane quality of understanding
suffering in others and wanting to do something about it”
In my practice I had one
to one relationship with my patients, which provided me and the patient mental
satisfaction of their care and health being satisfactorily attended to.
One should practice the law of Giving, before one can receive. The more you
give, the more you will receive because you will keep the abundance of
Universal energy circulating in your life. The gifts of caring, attention,
affection, appreciation, and love are some of the most precious gifts you can
give, and they do not cost you anything.
Attitude is a complex mental state involving beliefs
and feelings and values and dispositions to act in certain ways and affects the
choice that one makes. I will be the first to admit that when
I've failed in life, I've caused my own failures. My attitude hasn't always
been a positive one- whenever-I've spent time in my life focusing on the
negative rather than the positive, the limitations rather than the potential,
what I was missing rather than what I had. I can't tell you when the change
occurred, or where, or how. It's been a long process, and one that I've had to
keep working at in order to keep it going. I've learned through reading,
deliberating, reflecting in action, watching people, and asking questions that
my world is what I make it--I've been blessed with many gifts, but it's up to
me whether I use them or not. If I don't, I'm pretty much wasting my time
on this planet. I always saw this as something that was so easy to say, because
people who had their acts together always said it.
ਖਿਮਾ ਗਹੀ ਸਚੁ ਸੰਚਿਓ ਖਾਇਓ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤੁ ਨਾਮ ॥
ਖਰੀ ਕ੍ਰਿਪਾ ਠਾਕੁਰ ਭਈ ਅਨਦ ਸੂਖ ਬਿਸ੍ਰਾਮ ॥
Khima Gahee Such Sancheo Khaaeyo Amrit Naam, Khari Kirpa Thakur Bhayee Anand Sookh Bisraam.
ਖਰੀ ਕ੍ਰਿਪਾ ਠਾਕੁਰ ਭਈ ਅਨਦ ਸੂਖ ਬਿਸ੍ਰਾਮ ॥
Khima Gahee Such Sancheo Khaaeyo Amrit Naam, Khari Kirpa Thakur Bhayee Anand Sookh Bisraam.
Adopting an
attitude of tolerance, and gathering truth, partakes of the Ambrosial Nectar of
the Name. I have been blessed with the Guru’s Grace, resulting in complete
peace and tranquility of mind.----Guru Arjan, Gauri Bawan
Akhree, AGGS, Page 261-8
It took me a while to realize that by focusing on the
negative things in my life, I was perpetuating them trough fear, and as I
slowly began to shift my focus to the positive, I found that life became more
and more positive by detaching myself from it. Eventually, I became one of the
people who say that it's your attitude more than anything else that determine
how your life goes.
Our attitude tells the world what we expect in
return. If it's a cheerful, expectant attitude, it says to everyone with
whom we come in contact that we expect the best in our dealings with the world.
You see, we tend to live up to our expectations. And others give to us, as
far as their attitudes are concerned, what we expect. Our attitude is
something we can control. We can establish our attitude each morning when
we start our day--in fact, we do just that, whether or not we realize it.
And the people in our family--all the people in our world--will reflect
back to us the attitude we present to them. It is, then, our attitude
toward life that determines life's attitude toward us. Everything we say
or do will cause a corresponding effect. If we're cheerful, glad to be experiencing
this miracle of life, others will reflect that good cheer back to us. In
some ways our attitude determines every thing, because they are the glasses
through which we see the world. Our attitudes have the ability to enable or
disable us.
ਭੈ ਤੇ ਬੈਰਾਗੁ ਊਪਜੈ ਹਰਿ ਖੋਜਤ ਫਿਰਣਾ ॥
ਖੋਜਤ ਖੋਜਤ ਸਹਜੁ ਉਪਜਿਆ ਫਿਰਿ ਜਨਮਿ ਨ ਮਰਣਾ ॥
Bhai Tay Bairaag Oupjai Har Khojat Firna, Khojat Khojat Sehaj Opje-aa Fir Janam Na Marna.
ਖੋਜਤ ਖੋਜਤ ਸਹਜੁ ਉਪਜਿਆ ਫਿਰਿ ਜਨਮਿ ਨ ਮਰਣਾ ॥
Bhai Tay Bairaag Oupjai Har Khojat Firna, Khojat Khojat Sehaj Opje-aa Fir Janam Na Marna.
Through the Fear of
God, the attitude of detachment wells up, and one sets out in search of God.
The persons who have imbibed the wonder-awe of the God in the company of the
Guru have caste away all the fears of death.-----Guru Arjan, Raag Maru, AGGS, Page 1102-8
Because we become the kind of people others enjoy
being around by living the life with positive attitude. Attitude concludes the
destiny in life. People that pray and meditate
feel a sense of belonging. They are not alone to face the perils of this world.
All major religions believe in a God and through prayer and meditation they can
communicate with their Higher Power. They can ask for forgiveness and ask for
help. It has long been shown by psychologists and psychiatrists that it is
essential to have a sense of belonging for proper mental health. People that
are loners by nature tend to die early, not look and feel as healthy, and do
not handle adversity and stress well. They tend to hold it in and then blow up
on those that are actually trying to help them. People who want to prolong their lives should
work on their attitude, the same way they would change their diet or exercise
routines.
The consequences of chronic stress
that is not addressed leads to disease by increasing the stress hormones of
adrenaline and Cortisol. The later can be as bad as too little or too
much. Once a person’s Cortisol level
becomes blunted, it stays that way for years. Chronic stress is a causative factor of diseases of the
cardiovascular system, including hypertension, stroke and heart disease; a
compromised immune system which can lead to infections, allergies or even
cancer; and gastrointestinal conditions such as ulcers and irritable bowel
syndrome by increasing the number of inflammatory proteins in the body. Post
traumatic stress disorder, burnout, chronic fatigue syndrome and fibromyalgia
are related to stress in some ways. Subjects with low self esteem are more
vulnerable to stress, and when stress overwhelms the system a psychological
reaction of learned helplessness sets in.
Tolerance accepts that each of us is doing what we
need to for this moment. It arises from a state of mental relaxation
that allows us to remain calm, when we see others acting in a way we think
should be different. By adopting
an attitude of tolerance and gathering truth will result in complete peace and
tranquility of mind. Tolerance is showing respect for the rights or
opinions or practices of others and is another word for indifference. To
understand every thing makes one tolerant with a broader outlook, wider vision,
and an open mind resulting in happiness. Tolerance
furnishes, as a by-product, a greater freedom from the tendency to cling to
preconceived ideas and stubbornly adhered-to opinions. In other words, it often
promotes an open-mindedness that is vastly important - is, in fact, a
prerequisite to the successful conclusion of any line of search, whether it is
scientific or spiritual.
Tolerance expresses itself in a variety of ways: in
kindness and consideration:
- Toward the man or woman who is just beginning the march along the Spiritual path.
- In understanding the difficulties of those who perhaps have not learned to read on spirituality.
- And in sympathy toward those whose religious ideas may seem to be at great variance.
- The only hope of preserving what is best, lays in the practice of immense charity, a wider tolerance, and a sincere respect for others opinions with humility.
Difference of opinion is helpful
in religion.-----Thomas Jefferson.
Human diversity makes tolerance more than a virtue. "The best thing to give to your enemy is forgiveness; to an opponent, tolerance; to a friend, your heart; to your child, a good example; to a father, deference; to your mother, conduct that will make her proud of you; to yourself, respect; to all men, charity. Tolerance is needed very badly in the world today affected by intolerance. Patience, tolerance, understanding and love are the watchwords. Show others these things in yourself and they will be reflected back to you from them. Live and let live should be the rule. A spirit of intolerance might repel others, whose ignorance can be dispelled by Divine Knowledge. After all, doesn’t fear being the true basis of intolerance.
Caring love begets tolerance: When we care about others, we act for them as a support
system, we are not there to make another person's decisions-- to do so, robs
another of control and ownership of their moment. It allows us to tolerate
differences from ourselves that we perceive in others like their feelings,
opinions, attitudes, religious beliefs, political positions, appearances,
habits, actions, and on and on.
Prayer and meditation do have beneficial effects on health. I have seen in my
own medical practice and personal life that faith does change the negative
attitude to a positive one, with marvelous improvement in the health and
prolongs the life in many instances. Attitude is a complex mental state involving beliefs and
feelings and values and dispositions to act in certain ways and affects the
choice that one makes.
Prayer is a conscious realization
of a personal intimate relationship with Holy Omnipotent God, putting aside all
selfish desires so one can experience communion with It with out hindrance from
worldly egos. It is a supplication for benefits either for one’s self
(petition) or for others (intercession).
It is accepted and is common to
all religions. To pray is to know how to stand still and to dwell on the Word.
It is the opportunity to remind one’s self of his priorities and what is most
important and vital. Reciting prayer with belief and conviction literally is
the service of the heart and reciting it with out belief is just lip service.
Through prayer
one connects to a higher source of love and energy, whenever there is a need of
comfort or direction. There is no other better way to open up to the universal,
loving, and creating energy available to human species. It can be said at any time and at any
place. Prayer is not a formal ritual. God is father, mother, sibling, relative,
friend, lover etc. with whom you have the liberty of being informal. One does
not need a middleman for a prayer according to Sikh thought as one can open up
to his Higher Power more comfortably while alone. Prayer does not need any
special place or location as God is in creation and creation is in God.
ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਨੋ ਜੇਹਾ ਕੋ ਇਛਦਾ ਤੇਹਾ ਫਲੁ ਪਾਏ ਕੋਇ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਕਰਤਾ ਸਭੁ ਕਿਛੁ ਜਾਣਦਾ ਜਿਦੂ ਕਿਛੁ ਗੁਝਾ ਨ ਹੋਇ ॥
Saṯgur no jehā ko icẖẖ▫ḏā ṯehā fal pā▫e ko▫e Nanak Kartaa Sabh Kichh Jaandaa Jidoo Kichh Gujhaa Na Ho-ay.
ਨਾਨਕ ਕਰਤਾ ਸਭੁ ਕਿਛੁ ਜਾਣਦਾ ਜਿਦੂ ਕਿਛੁ ਗੁਝਾ ਨ ਹੋਇ ॥
Saṯgur no jehā ko icẖẖ▫ḏā ṯehā fal pā▫e ko▫e Nanak Kartaa Sabh Kichh Jaandaa Jidoo Kichh Gujhaa Na Ho-ay.
As one feels towards the True Guru, so are the rewards he
receives. O, Nanak, the Creator knows everything; nothing can be hidden from
It.-----Guru Ram Das,
Gauri Ki Vaar, AGGS, Page, 302-5
Prayer describes a state of mind
of complete surrender to God in which a person becomes humility incarnate. God
is always merciful and kind. God’s nature is giving and not taking. God never
bounces back prayer from humble servants. However all powers are with God,
which implies that to answer a prayer is God’s prerogative. It is not a check
that you can draw on the bank of God, whenever you are hard put to meet your needs.
Prayer always springs out of a sense of need and belief, that God is a rewarder
of them who seek it diligently whether literate or illiterate. True prayer
coming out from the depths of the heart and bereft of selfish desires with
complete unconditional surrender is always answered according to believers.
We may think of prayer as thoughts or feelings expressed in words, or even in silence it is the opening of mind and heart- our whole being- to God, the ultimate mystery, beyond thoughts, words and emotions. We open our awareness to God whom we know by faith with in us, closer than breathing, closer than thinking and closer than consciousness it self, and God is perceptible in each one’s heart.
ਅਨਬੋਲੇ ਕਉ ਤੁਹੀ ਪਛਾਨਹਿ ਜੋ ਜੀਅਨ ਮਹਿ ਹੋਤਾ ॥
ਰੇ ਮਨ ਕਾਇ ਕਹਾ ਲਉ ਡਹਕਹਿ ਜਉ ਪੇਖਤ ਹੀਸੰਗਿ ਸੁਨਤਾ ॥
Unbolay Kaou Tuhee Pachaaneh Jo Jee-an Meh Hota, Ray Man Kaa-ay Kahaa La-o Dehkahi Ja-o Paykhat Hee Sang Suntaa.
ਰੇ ਮਨ ਕਾਇ ਕਹਾ ਲਉ ਡਹਕਹਿ ਜਉ ਪੇਖਤ ਹੀਸੰਗਿ ਸੁਨਤਾ ॥
Unbolay Kaou Tuhee Pachaaneh Jo Jee-an Meh Hota, Ray Man Kaa-ay Kahaa La-o Dehkahi Ja-o Paykhat Hee Sang Suntaa.
You know even what is not said, whatever
is in the conscious. O mind, why do
you deceive others? How long will you do this? The God is with you; It hears
and sees everything.-----Guru
Arjan, Raag Bilawal, AGGS, Page, 823-4
The wording of the prayer can be
individualized by the petitioner him self. It is the sincerity of the prayer,
which matters. It is the motive that makes difference between true and false
prayer. Only the prayer performed with the full concentration of mind is
accepted at the door of God. Other prayers are self-deception and hypocrisy.
Prayer and meditation let one detoxify their body and mind of toxic thoughts.
Just like toxins we are familiar with; toxic thoughts can bring on depression,
dark thoughts, hatred, mental illness and even suicide. Toxic thoughts and
being alone are very negative for good mental health. By praying and meditating
we are learning to put ourselves and our minds in a relaxed state and being in
company with our Higher Power and thus rooting out the miserable loneliness.
The best thing is that prayer and mediation are free. You can do it anywhere at
anytime, in an elevator, in a quiet room, before going to sleep at night, the
possibilities are endless. Prayer will help clean your mind of worry and
stressful thoughts and replace them with thoughts of hope and serenity. Prayer
before bedtime has been proven to reduce or entirely eliminate the need for
sleep pills altogether in some cases.
Preliminary meditation processes work directly with this fundamental problem of our outer identification that blinds us to the truth of ourselves and to perceptions of higher realities. From the beginning of practice, the meditator learns to sit still and internalize attention, causing awareness to withdraw from sense organs and mental transformations and turn back on itself. It is only when internalized attention flows without disturbance to the chosen focus of concentration or transcendental possibilities that meditation actually occurs. Before this, our endeavors to meditate are preparatory and preliminary. As meditation progresses, super conscious states become refined. With physical relaxation and internalization of attention, one experiences emotional peace and mental calmness: not as a result of suppression of feelings and thoughts, but as a result of their being quieted. The meditator, while enjoying an interlude of calm, may wonder if it is a valid super conscious episode. After successive practice sessions, confidence improves and beneficial effects of super conscious experiences are noticed and validated.
Meditation has been proven to have a profound
influence on people’s health and especially on hospital patients. Meditation
can help to ease stress, worry, and live with greater joy, serenity, and
empathy every day. It eases just about every anxiety symptom from muscle
tension to stress. People who pray and meditate daily have shown marked
decreases in stress hormone levels of Adrenaline and Cortisol leading to
increased heart rate and blood pressure, and
increase in feel good hormones like serotonin, nor-epinephrine, and
dopamine. These are the same bio peptides, which are stimulated by
antidepressants like Prozac. Depression is nothing but a loss of ability to
elevate the self and meditation on the other hand helps to elevate the self.
Those who pray and meditate age better, live longer, and handle adversity far
better. Basically, people that believe in God and pray consistently are happier
and have a better quality of health and life in general. Why is this? Meditation alters the areas of brain that determine day-to-day
emotional range. It has been proved by cognitive neuro-scientific
research by Davidson that in the left prefrontal cortex, an area just behind
the left forehead, is the place where brain activity is intense during
meditation on self.
The “Negative feelings” of anger or fear, brain activity localizes in this emotional center, and the right prefrontal cortex. Research suggests that meditation and mindfulness of spirituality and to know the “SELF” can tame the Amygdala, an area of the brain which is the hub of fear memory.
Positive feelings of happiness and well being on the other hand affect the left prefrontal cortex. It is the ratio of right to left activity that determines your “Emotional set point.” If ratio leans to right one tends to be unhappy and to the left, he will be upbeat, happy, and positive. Brain cells release Dopamine or Endorphins/opiates during meditation, compassion, gratitude or when a person is upbeat, which floods and bathe the neurons of right ventral tegmental area and prefrontal cortex involved in memory and emotion causing pleasurable feelings of joy, while Amygdala associated with fear is temporarily inhibited. These changes have been repeatedly documented with functional MRI’s and CT scans of the brain by many psychologists, cognitive neuroscientists, and physio-psychiatrics. These regions of brain responsible for emotions, memory and learning are responsible to destabilize the cardiac muscle under stress in individuals having underlying heart disease and could cause cardiac arrest from irregular heart rhythm. Spiritual meditation in situations of stress does play a serene role in combating stress. In few weeks of meditation one’s set point can be changed. It can extend the capacity beyond the perceived limits and hone insight, sharper creativity and enhance the ability to concentrate. It teaches one to stay focused and relaxed in the present moment; even when turbulent thoughts and emotions swirl through one’s head. One also chooses to ignore the most negative feelings and respond calmly and appropriately to situations, no matter how challenging. What is important is to choose one’s focus and stick with it during the period of meditation? When the mind wanders, which it inevitably will, gently bring one’s awareness to the set focus and it should not be manipulated in any way. The loving kindness meditation in action helps to reawaken our inherent capacity to give and receive the compassion practices and taking us one step further, in order to completely eliminate the source of suffering, which is the final solution to all human problems-and thus is the only source of real fulfillment with in us.
Try as we may to satisfy our
need for personal freedom and soul contentment by external means alone, success
will be ever elusive. At our innermost level of being, the real Self of
us exists in wholesome purity. Here untouched by mundane conditions and
transitory events, abides undisturbed peace, pure bliss, flawless knowledge,
and limitless awareness of the absolute freedom.
This permanent reality of us can be consciously experienced by the simple, simultaneous acts of acknowledgment and acceptance. When we do this, we are self-realized: established in clear awareness of our real nature as Spiritual beings grounded in an unbounded field of pure consciousness - existence which is not other than us.
When practiced correctly on a regular schedule, Meditation
removes awareness from limiting conditions of every kind and returns it to
ourselves- to the innate state of pure being. We need to realize that
regardless of our faith, God is infinitesimally smarter beyond any human
comprehension and knows what is best for each and every one of us. God may not
always seem to answer our prayers in the way we would like, but that does not
mean he does not hear us. God gave us the gift of prayer so that not only could
we talk to him, but so we could heal our bodies and better cope with the
stresses of daily life. Through our prayer and meditation we can learn
patience, forgiveness, hope, love and true happiness. In addition to regular
meditation practice, it is helpful to adopt lifestyle behaviors that will
be supportive of your highest ideals for personal fulfillment and Spiritual
enlightenment. By doing this, your every thought, mood, action, and
relationship will nurture radiant wellness and functional expression in every
aspect of your life with a spiritual attitude.
ਏਹੁ ਅਹੇਰਾ ਕੀਨੋ ਦਾਨੁ ॥ਨਾਨਕ ਕੈ ਘਰਿ ਕੇਵਲ ਨਾਮੁ ॥੪॥੪॥
God has given this boon of the game of Naam solely in to Nanak's home.-----Guru Nanak, Raag Bhairo, AGGS, Page, 1136-16
ਜਪਹੁ ਤ ਏਕੋ ਨਾਮਾ ॥
ਅਵਰਿ ਨਿਰਾਫਲ ਕਾਮਾ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
Japahu ṯa eko nāmā.Avar nirāfal kāmā. ||1|| rahā▫o.
ਅਵਰਿ ਨਿਰਾਫਲ ਕਾਮਾ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
Japahu ṯa eko nāmā.Avar nirāfal kāmā. ||1|| rahā▫o.
Chant the Name of the One God. All other actions are
fruitless. ||1||Pause||-----Guru Nanak, Raag Suhi, AGGS, Page, 728-5
A word about neuroplasticity that mind can change the brain
as a result of the thoughts one thinks by altering the neuronal connections in
a way that can treat mental illness or lead to a great capacity for empathy and
compassion by moving the happiness set point. Cognitive behavior therapy can
thus quiet activity in the circuit in the frontal cortex, the seat of
reasoning, logic, and higher thought that underlies obsessive-compulsive
disorder. CBT also raised the activity of hippocampus of the limbic system, the
brain’s emotion center.
Acceptance with positive attitude leads to
contentment in the present as is and one should be willing to have it so. If
some facet of our life is unacceptable, and we have been up front in dealing
with it to no avail, sometimes the only way through is to accept that this is
so. All issues can be handled by understanding what the problem is and
accepting it. When we are disturbed about something or someone, it is because
we do not understand on a higher level but view it through our personality
which is attached to our need to control things and we do not see ourselves in
a positive light.
ਬਿਨੁ
ਪ੍ਰੀਤੀ ਭਗਤਿ ਨ
ਹੋਵਈ
ਬਿਨੁ
ਸਬਦੈ
ਥਾਇ
ਨ
ਪਾਇ
॥
ਸਬਦੇ ਹਉਮੈ ਮਾਰੀਐ ਮਾਇਆ ਕਾ ਭ੍ਰਮੁ ਜਾਇ ॥
Bin parīṯī bẖagaṯ na hovaī bin sabḏai thāė na pāė, Sabḏė
haumai mārīai māiā kā
bẖaram jāė.
Without love, there is no devotional worship. Without the Sabd, no one finds acceptance. Through the Sabd, egotism is conquered and subdued, and the illusion of Maya is dispelled.-----Guru Amar Das, Siri Raag, AGGS, Page, 67-5
Happiness is not a static state and is
inherently subjective. Acceptance is the way to happiness. What keeps us
constantly struggling with the life is the attitude of non-acceptance, of not
trusting the basic process of life unfolding? It is important to work on social
skills, close interpersonal ties and social support to be happy. We need to learn
to trust in and surrender to this impersonal process we tend to think of as “my
life.” Humans were designed to
be happy, creative and in harmony with the Mother Nature at all times for a
persistent state of joy. The overall happiness is not merely the sum of our happy moments minus
the sum of our sad ones. The three components of happiness are pleasure,
engagement, and meaning of a purpose of life. Engagement and meaning are much
more important than sensual pleasure. We cannot find serenity when we are at war
with someone or with ourselves. Nothing happens on this great green earth by
mistake. Unless we accept our situation and learn from it, we cannot be happy
and free of stress. If we learn from it, then we need not beat ourselves up.
Gratitude is, to
find a meaning for every suffering. The moment you have found some explanation
that suffering becomes less and if the spiritual awareness is there, one is well-rounded, practical,
efficient, man having a spiritual experience.
The real spiritual experience is so profound that it wholly transforms the
character of the individual, which is a personal ecstatic pleasure of the mind
which cannot be shown or shared with others but does make an impact of God’s
presence & Grace in the mind of the individual experiencing it.
Gratitude creates happiness because it makes us feel full and, complete. It is
the realization that we have every thing we need, at least in this moment.
Gratitude births only positive feelings- love, compassion, joy and hope melting
away fear, anger and, bitterness. Gratitude is the state of being appreciative
of benefits received. As we experience the mental sunshine of gratitude; we
begin to glow and our lives are full of people who want to be around us because
we exude peacefulness, happiness and joy. Positive emotions released through gratitude and love is
beneficial to health through the release of endorphins in the blood stream.
Conversely, negative emotions such as worry, anger and, hopelessness contribute
to high levels of adrenaline leading to stroke and heart disease. Gratitude
brings you back at the present moment now. When we see the glass half full
rather than half empty, we notice what is there rather dwelling on what is not
there. A growing
number of researchers are supporting the claim with studies that show how the
human body benefits from everything from gratitude and generosity. Psychologist Russell Kolts found
that gratitude was associated with lower symptoms of post-traumatic stress
disorder. Gratitude is an inner light we can use to illuminate our
souls. When we feel the fullness of gratitude, we accept life as it is. You
cannot experience gratitude with a closed heart. The more you feel grateful,
the stronger is the impulse toward giving. And the more you give, the more you
get-love, friendship, a sense of purpose and accomplishment, even some times
material wealth. Thus gratitude also gives birth to a fiercely loving
environmentalism. Some people find moments of transcendence trough meditation,
others in nature, still others when making love. Gratitude makes us feel like we have enough and He who knows
enough is enough will always have enough. Gratitude is the response of the
receiver of the gift and you are worthy of all you receive. Robert
Emmons studied organ-transplant recipients and found that the more gratitude
they felt, the faster they recovered.
Humility perceives
one’s place in the world, not according to one’s own accomplishments but
according to the intrinsic value of all individuals developed by progressing in
spirituality. The word humility
signifies lowliness or submissiveness and it is derived from the Latin
humilitas or, from humus, i.e. the earth that is beneath us and lies under our
feet. Water is further humble, which rests below the earth and low lands but
rises under pressure in the fountains. So they who preserve a humble mind mount
to God's highest pinnacle. Humility is not
thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less. Humility is an
essential attitude for success in spiritual life. Spirituality is the concern
with one’s inner being and how one deal with Truth, Love and Courage. True
humility is the low but deep and firm foundation of all virtues. Plenty of people
wish to become devout but no one wishes to be humble. Fullness of knowledge
always and necessarily means some understanding of our ignorance that is always
conducive to both humility and reverence. Pride is concerned with who is right;
humility is concerned with what is right. It is vain to gather virtues with out
humility, for the spirit of God delighteth to dwell in the hearts of humble.
Guru Nanak, the founder of the Sikh faith expressed that Sweetness
and humility, are the essence of virtue and goodness.
Pride is the basic breeder of most human
difficulties, the chief block to progress. The satisfaction of our lower
instincts for sex, security and a place in society becomes the primary object
of our lives, which leads to pride to justify our excesses. True ambition is
the profound desire to live usefully and walk humbly under the God’s Will.
Selfless Service leads to spiritual growth and
ultimately, we come to understand that serving humanity and serving God are one
and the same. In other words selfless service is meditation in action. In order to serve the divinity in humanity effectively, we
have to consciously feel God's presence in those we are serving. While we are
speaking to someone, we have to feel that we are speaking to the divinity
within that person. The most important characteristic of selfless
service is the right motivation. One should not act for gain or reward in doing
selfless service but should perform actions for the sake of helping other
people, as acts of selfless giving. The more you give, the more you receive.
The unselfish and compassionate acts will not only help others, but will also
help to broaden our minds as well with spiritual wisdom and with the blessings
of God’s Grace. Service of others and good deeds’ positive
action makes one feel warm, caring, and can actually help people live longer,
healthier lives. The Grace of the God thus
received makes us to become selfless in spite of our selfishness at biological
level and brings up the hidden spiritual dimension to our personality. It
brings out necessary refinement in intellect to sharpen the reason and leads us
to intuitive realization of virtue of selfless behavior and attitude. But this
process is very slow and calls for conscious and deliberate efforts on the part
of the individual as well. Guru Nanak’s philosophy of service is closely linked
with moral and ethical social code. It is a two-way exchange; to become
selfless one has to engage in service, and more a person becomes selfless the
more he/she enjoys serving others. When we meditate in silence with utmost
devotion, which is one form of contemplative meditation leading to personal
mental tranquility but when we try to dedicate our work to God or to the world
(humanity/God), which is another form of meditation, which we may call
manifestation. On the positive side, religious faith
genuinely uplifts the spirit. The basic problems facing humanity are anxiety,
depression, neurosis, obsession, paranoia, and delusions requiring to be dealt
with. We need only to concentrate on our part of the situation; what needs to
be changed in our way of thinking and having done so, happiness will follow.
One should try to bring the self from negative ailing state to neutral normal.
Fortitude/Courage is a necessary component for healing, which
is a long process of restoration to a state of wholeness and well-being. It is a moral virtue that ensures firmness
in difficulties and constancy in the pursuit of the good. The virtue of
fortitude enables one to conquer fear, even the fear of death. It is not the absence of fear but making
actions despite fear. Fear is a huge obstacle in the path recovery. Fortitude
strengthens the resolve to resist temptations and to overcome obstacles in
life. It is stubbornness in the face of overwhelming odds. It is the marshal of thought, the
armor of the will, and the fort of reason. Affliction is the wholesome soil of
virtue, where patience, honor, sweet humility, and calm fortitude, take root
and strongly flourish. Strength of character and inner fortitude, however, are
decisive factors. It needs inner strength and bravery to
confront the illness. It is an energy behind all great actions, which resides
deep with in and leaps forward with faith banishing fears of all kind. One
should learn the lesson of courage and create a healthy life one desires.
Conclusion:
Empirical
studies have identified significant links between spirituality and health.
True healing takes place from inside out and just not at the surface. Healing
isn’t just the scab that forms over a cut. Emotional healing requires the
connection and integration of mind and the heart of thoughts and feelings. It
brings resolution, relief, and peace. The burden is lifted and things are
lighter. Its gifts are lessons, insights and personal growth. To consciously
choose to heal and grow from the emotional or physical suffering requires a
serious commitment as well as willingness to go through and heal the pain and
suffering.
Pain
patients' spiritual beliefs appear different than the general population and
feel more abandoned by God, and are inversely related to physical health
outcomes. But others finally try to find a Higher Power, and are more likely to
engage in private religious activities, perhaps as a way to cope with their
poor health. Forgiveness, daily spiritual experiences, with spiritual growth
significantly predicted improvement leads to positive mental health status.
There are relationships between spirituality and health in chronic pain
population.
Religiousness
and spirituality consistently predict greater social support, fewer depressive
symptoms, better cognitive function, and greater cooperativeness. Patients
categorizing themselves as neither spiritual nor religious tended to have worse
self-rated and observer-rated health and greater medical co morbidity.
Awareness of these relationships may improve health care. Practice in the
medical field and experiences suggest an association between intrinsic
spirituality and a patient's experience of health and pain. Spiritual progress
gives a soothing message to the brain thus relieving anxiety, stress, and
unnecessary tension by releasing emotional attachment and addiction to the
adrenaline rush of the outside world.
The role of spiritual and religious factors in health,
viewed from a scientific perspective, has been yielding interesting
if not intriguing results. In general, studies have reported fairly
consistent positive relationships with physical health, mental
health, and substance abuse outcomes as seen in the 12 step program of
Alcoholics Anonymous. Spiritually inclined individuals exhibit fewer
self-destructive behaviors like addictions to drugs and alcohol with total life
satisfaction.
Although
spirituality has been shown to reduce depression, improve blood pressure, and
boost the immune system, religious beliefs should not
interfere with the medical care one receives.
Spirituality does have a positive effect on the following
disease; Skin disorders, Alcoholism, Allergies, Asthma, Colitis, Constipation,
Headaches--tension, migraine, Heart
disease, Stroke, Hypertension, Ulcers, Cancer, Nervous breakdown, Psychosis,
and Neurosis.
The whole purpose of any
faith is to facilitate love and compassion, patience, tolerance, humility,
forgiveness. Altruism (selflessness) should be the first and foremost tradition
of the people. The education is worth that is applied for the welfare of the
humanity. With out service no one obtains any spiritual reward. The one, who
earns honestly with hard work and shares some of his earning for the welfare of
humanity, has recognized the real path of life, says Guru Nanak founder of Sikh
Faith.
Researchers at the University of Michigan found that people who offered
social support to others in a financial crisis saw a marked reduction in their
own anxiety about money.
Strong and united
communities are the foundation of a healthy society. It is the duty of every
one to respect and support our communities. One aspect of this responsibility
is caring for the less fortunate, and maintaining the values that have made North America great.
We wish to free all beings from their suffering and bring them happiness, peace,
and improved health. The more we meditate on suffering, the deeper our
compassion becomes, until one day we finally realize that to be of the greatest help
to beings, we ourselves must attain enlightenment for the benefit of all
others. We must recognize the path of secular spiritual humanism, based upon the principles of logic and reason.
This alone offers the hope of providing everybody on this globe with the right of life, liberty, pursuit of happiness and health, and that is what Truth is, which we are trying to realize here in the name of Spirituality, Compassion and its positive effect on individual health?
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