Tuesday, August 1, 2017




ARGUMENT/ਬਾਦੁ




ABSTRACT





Arguments in Sikh debates arise because:
  • The practice of faith is different than what is written in AGGS.
  •  The literal translation of AGGS is given precedence over the meaning of the messages.
  • Superiority vs humility, the former pertains to who is right and the later to what is right.
  •  Individual insecurity and fear.
ਝਝਾ ਉਰਝਿ ਸੁਰਝਿ ਨਹੀ ਜਾਨਾ ॥ 
ਰਹਿਓ ਝਝਕਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਪਰਵਾਨਾ ॥
ਕਤ ਝਖਿ ਝਖਿ ਅਉਰਨ ਸਮਝਾਵਾ ॥
ਝਗਰੁ ਕੀਏ ਝਗਰਉ ਹੀ ਪਾਵਾ ॥੧੫॥
Jẖajẖā urajẖ surajẖ nahī jānā. Rahi▫o jẖajẖak nāhī parvānā. Kaṯ jẖakẖ jẖakẖ a▫uran samjẖāvā. Jẖagar kī▫e jẖagara▫o hī pāvā. 

 JHAJHA: You are entangled in the world, and you do not know how to get untangled. You hold back in fear and are not accepted by God. Why do you talk such nonsense, trying to convince others? Since you stir up controversy, controversy you shall have. 
-----Kabir, Raag Gauri Bawan Akhari, AGGS, Page, 340 and 341
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The argument is a discussion in which disagreements appear.  A debate implies discussion involving conflicting points of view. It stresses the advancement by each side of facts and reasons intended to persuade the other side.  Emotions are seldom assuaged by arguments.  They can heighten controversy and exaggerate differences.  A large number of people can get involved in the advocacy of one view or the other.  Basically, an argument has two parts – a reason and a conclusion. The conclusion of an argument is one’s belief. The reasons for an argument explain why that belief is held.  Sometimes a set of reasons is termed premises or warrants.  In any argument, the issue must be clear.  The opening phase of the argument must define its subject matter very clearly.  It should indicate the particular view of the subject the arguer is promoting.  It is this view that he seeks his listener or reader to accept if his persuasion is to be successful.

 What is not an argument?

·        An argument is not a report. A report only conveys information about a subject without taking a position on the subject. 

·       An argument is not an unsupported assertion.

·       An argument is not a conditional statement or a premise by itself; or a conclusion of an argument alone.

·       An argument is not an illustration. 

·       An argument is not an explanation. An explanation shows why something is true.  On the other hand, an argument proves that something is the case.

Sabd Guru on arguments:

ਤੀਰਥਿ ਭਰਮੈ ਰੋਗੁ ਨ ਛੂਟਸਿ ਪੜਿਆ ਬਾਦੁ ਬਿਬਾਦੁ ਭਇਆ ॥
ਦੁਬਿਧਾ ਰੋਗੁ ਸੁ ਅਧਿਕ ਵਡੇਰਾ ਮਾਇਆ ਕਾ ਮੁਹਤਾਜੁ ਭਇਆ ॥
Ŧirath bẖarmai rog na cẖẖūtas paṛiā bāḏ bibāḏ bẖaiā. Ḏubiḏẖā rog so aḏẖik vadėrā māiā kā muhṯāj bẖaiā.

Wandering around sacred shrines of pilgrimage, the mortal is not cured of his disease. Reading scripture, he gets involved in useless arguments. The disease of duality is very deadly; it causes dependence on Maya.                                              -----Guru Nanak, Raag Bhairo, AGGS, Page, 1153-16

ਗੁਰਮਤਿ ਸਾਚੀ ਹੁਜਤਿ ਦੂਰਿ ॥
ਬਹੁਤੁ ਸਿਆਣਪ ਲਾਗੈ ਧੂਰਿ ॥
Gurmaṯ sācẖī hujaṯ ḏūr, Bahuṯ siāṇap lāgai ḏẖūr.

 Receiving the True Teachings from the Guru, arguments depart. But through excessive cleverness, one is only plastered with dirt.                                              -----Guru Nanak, Raag Asa, AGGS, Page, 352-11

ਵਾਦਿ ਅਹੰਕਾਰਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਮੇਲਾ ॥
ਮਨੁ ਦੇ ਪਾਵਹਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਸੁਹੇਲਾ ॥ 
ਦੂਜੈ ਭਾਇ ਅਗਿਆਨੁ ਦੁਹੇਲਾ ॥
vāḏ ahaʼnkār nāhī parabẖ mėlā. Man ḏė pāvahi nām suhėlā. Ḏūjai bẖā¬ė agi¬ān ḏuhėlā.

 Union with God is not obtained by arguments and egotism. But by dedicating the mind to Guru one obtains Naam and peace. In the love of duality and ignorance, one shall suffer. 
                                                                                      -----Guru Nanak, Raag Gauri, AGGS, Page, 226-8

ਵਾਦਿ ਵਿਰੋਧਿ ਨ ਪਾਇਆ ਜਾਇ ॥
ਮਨੁ ਤਨੁ ਫੀਕਾ ਦੂਜੈ ਭਾਇ ॥
ਗੁਰ ਕੈ ਸਬਦਿ ਸਚਿ ਲਿਵ ਲਾਇ ॥
vāḏ viroḏẖ na pā¬i¬ā jā¬ė. Man ṯan fīkā ḏūjai bẖā¬ė. Gur kai sabaḏ sacẖ liv lā¬ė.

 Through argument and debate, God cannot be found. The mind and body are made insipid through the love of duality. Through the Word of the Guru's Sabd, lovingly attune yourself to the True God.  
                                                                               -----Guru Amar Das, Raag Gauri, AGGS, Page, 230-10

ਮਨਮੁਖ ਵਾਪਾਰੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣਨੀ ਬਿਖੁ ਵਿਹਾਝਹਿ ਬਿਖੁ ਸੰਗ੍ਰਹਹਿ ਬਿਖ ਸਿਉ ਧਰਹਿ ਪਿਆਰੁ ॥
ਬਾਹਰਹੁ ਪੰਡਿਤ ਸਦਾਇਦੇ ਮਨਹੁ ਮੂਰਖ ਗਾਵਾਰ ॥ 
ਹਰਿ ਸਿਉ ਚਿਤੁ ਨ ਲਾਇਨੀ ਵਾਦੀ ਧਰਨਿ ਪਿਆਰੁ ॥
ਵਾਦਾ ਕੀਆ ਕਰਨਿ ਕਹਾਣੀਆ ਕੂੜੁ ਬੋਲਿ ਕਰਹਿ ਆਹਾਰੁ ॥
ਜਗ ਮਹਿ ਰਾਮ ਨਾਮੁ ਹਰਿ ਨਿਰਮਲਾ ਹੋਰੁ ਮੈਲਾ ਸਭੁ ਆਕਾਰੁ ॥ 
ਨਾਨਕ ਨਾਮੁ ਨ ਚੇਤਨੀ ਹੋਇ ਮੈਲੇ ਮਰਹਿ ਗਵਾਰ ॥
Manmukẖ vāpārai sār na jāṇnī bikẖ vihājẖeh bikẖ sangarhahi bikẖ sio ḏẖareh piār, Bāhrahu pandiṯ saḏāiḏė manhu mūrakẖ gāvār, Har sio cẖiṯ na lāinī vāḏī ḏẖaran piār, vāḏā kīā karan kahāṇīā kūṛ bol karahi āhār, Jag meh rām nām har nirmalā hor mailā sabẖ ākār, Nānak nām na cẖėṯnī hoė mailė mareh gavār.

The self-willed does not appreciate the excellence of trading in Truth. He deals in poison, collects poison, and is in love with poison. Outwardly, they call themselves Pundits, religious scholars, but in their minds, they are foolish and ignorant. They do not focus their consciousness on God; they love to engage in arguments. They speak to cause arguments and earn their living by telling lies. In this world, only God's Name is immaculate and pure. All other objects of creation are polluted. O, Nanak, those who do not remember the Naam, the Name of God, are polluted; they die in ignorance.  
                                                                                  -----Guru Amar Das, Raag Maru, AGGS, Page, 1091

ਉਪਦੇਸੁ ਕਰੇ ਕਰਿ ਲੋਕ ਦ੍ਰਿੜਾਵੈ ॥ 
ਅਪਨਾ ਕਹਿਆ ਆਪਿ ਨ ਕਮਾਵੈ ॥
Upḏės karė kar lok ḏariṛāvai, Apnā kahiā āp na kamāvai

You preach to the others to have faith, but you do not practice what you preach. 
                                                                                -----Guru Arjun, Raag Ramkali, AGGS, Page, 887-18 

ੜਾੜਿ ਕਰਤ ਸਾਕਤ ਗਾਵਾਰਾ ॥
ਜੇਹ ਹੀਐ ਅਹੰਬੁਧਿ ਬਿਕਾਰਾ ॥ 
ੜਾੜਾ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ੜਾੜਿ ਮਿਟਾਈ ॥
ਨਿਮਖ ਮਾਹਿ ਨਾਨਕ ਸਮਝਾਈ ॥
ṛāṛ karaṯ sākaṯ gāvārā. Jėh hīai ahaʼnbuḏẖ bikārā. ṛāṛā gurmukẖ ṛāṛ mitāī. Nimakẖ māhi Nānak samjẖāī.

 RARRA: The foolish, materialist picks arguments -- his heart is filled with corruption and egotistical intellect. For the Guru oriented, conflict is eliminated in an instant through the Teachings, says Nanak. 
                                                                                        -----Guru Arjun, Raag Gauri, AGGS, Page, 260-4

ਕਾਹੂ ਬਿਹਾਵੈ ਬੇਦ ਅਰੁ ਬਾਦਿ॥
ਕਾਹੂ ਬਿਹਾਵੈ ਰਸਨਾ ਸਾਦਿ॥ 
ਕਾਹੂ ਬਿਹਾਵੈ ਲਪਟਿ ਸੰਗਿ ਨਾਰੀ॥
ਸੰਤ ਰਚੇ ਕੇਵਲ ਨਾਮ ਮੁਰਾਰੀ   ॥
Kāhū bihāvai bėḏ ar bāḏ, Kāhū bihāvai rasnā sāḏ, Kāhū bihāvai lapat sang nārī, Sanṯ racẖė kėval nām murārī..

Some pass their lives in arguments and debates about scriptures. Some pass their lives tasting flavors. Some pass their lives attached to women. The Saints are absorbed only in the Name of God. 
                                                                                 -----Guru Arjun, Raag Ramkali, AGGS, Page, 914-2

ਕਰਤ ਕਰਤ ਚਰਚ ਚਰਚ ਚਰਚਰੀ ॥
ਜੋਗ ਧਿਆਨ ਭੇਖ ਗਿਆਨ ਫਿਰਤ ਫਿਰਤ ਧਰਤ ਧਰਤ ਧਰਚਰੀ ॥
ਅਹੰ ਅਹੰ ਅਹੈ ਅਵਰ ਮੂੜ ਮੂੜ ਮੂੜ ਬਵਰਈ ॥
ਜਤਿ ਜਾਤ ਜਾਤ ਜਾਤ ਸਦਾ ਸਦਾ ਸਦਾ ਸਦਾ ਕਾਲ ਹਈ ॥
ਮਾਨੁ ਮਾਨੁ ਮਾਨੁ ਤਿਆਗਿ ਮਿਰਤੁ ਮਿਰਤੁ ਨਿਕਟਿ ਨਿਕਟਿ ਸਦਾ ਹਈ ॥
ਹਰਿ ਹਰੇ ਹਰੇ ਭਾਜੁ ਕਹਤੁ ਨਾਨਕੁ ਸੁਨਹੁ ਰੇ ਮੂੜ ਬਿਨੁ ਭਜਨ ਭਜਨ ਭਜਨ ਅਹਿਲਾ ਜਨਮੁ ਗਈ ॥
Karaṯ karaṯ cẖaracẖ cẖaracẖ cẖarcẖarī, Jog ḏẖiān bẖėkẖ giān firaṯ firaṯ ḏẖaraṯ ḏẖaraṯ ḏẖarcẖarī, Ahaʼn ahaʼn ahai avar mūṛ mūṛ mūṛ bavraī, Jaṯ jāṯ jāṯ jāṯ saḏā saḏā saḏā saḏā kāl haī, Mān mān mān ṯiāg miraṯ miraṯ nikat nikat saḏā haī, Har harė harė bẖāj kahaṯ Nānak sunhu rė mūṛ bin bẖajan bẖajan bẖajan ahilā janam gaī.

The debaters debate and make their arguments. The Yogis and meditators, religious and spiritual teachers roam and ramble, wandering endlessly all over the earth. They are egotistical, self-centered, conceited, foolish, stupid, idiotic, and insane. Wherever they go and wonder, death is always with them, forever and ever and ever and ever. Give up your pride and stubborn self-conceit. Death, yes, death, is always close and near at hand. Vibrate and meditate on God-Waheguru. Says Nanak, listen to you fool: without vibrating, meditating, and dwelling on God, your life is uselessly wasting away. 
-----Guru Arjun, Raag Kanrha, AGGS, Page, 1308-1-4 
                                                     
Conclusion:

An argument is the worst sort of conversation, and ought to be avoided.  Arguments based on mere possibilities are often spurious. Insolence is not logical.  Similarly, epithets are the arguments made from malice. An emotional argument cannot be won by logic. The soundest argument will produce no more conviction in an empty head than the most superficial.

The moment we want to believe something, we suddenly see all the arguments for it, and become blind to the arguments against it.  Guru Nanak reflects on a spiritually ignorant person in Raag Majh Ki Vaar:

ਮਛੀ ਤਾਰੂ ਕਿਆ ਕਰੇ ਪੰਖੀ ਕਿਆ ਆਕਾਸੁ ॥
ਪਥਰ ਪਾਲਾ ਕਿਆ ਕਰੇ ਖੁਸਰੇ ਕਿਆ ਘਰ ਵਾਸੁ ॥ 
ਕੁਤੇ ਚੰਦਨੁ ਲਾਈਐ ਭੀ ਸੋ ਕੁਤੀ ਧਾਤੁ ॥
ਬੋਲਾ ਜੇ ਸਮਝਾਈਐ ਪੜੀਅਹਿ ਸਿੰਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਪਾਠ ॥ 
ਅੰਧਾ ਚਾਨਣਿ ਰਖੀਐ ਦੀਵੇ ਬਲਹਿ ਪਚਾਸ ॥
ਚਉਣੇ ਸੁਇਨਾ ਪਾਈਐ ਚੁਣਿ ਚੁਣਿ ਖਾਵੈ ਘਾਸੁ ॥ 
ਲੋਹਾ ਮਾਰਣਿ ਪਾਈਐ ਢਹੈ ਨ ਹੋਇ ਕਪਾਸ ॥
 ਨਾਨਕ ਮੂਰਖ ਏਹਿ ਗੁਣ ਬੋਲੇ ਸਦਾ ਵਿਣਾਸੁ ॥
Macẖẖī ṯārū ki­ā karė pankẖī ki­ā ākās. Pathar pālā ki­ā karė kẖusrė ki­ā gẖar vās. Kuṯė cẖanḏan lā­ī­ai bẖī so kuṯī ḏẖāṯ. Bolā jė samjā­ī­ai paṛī­ah simriṯ pāṯẖ. Anḏẖā cẖānaṇ rakẖī­ai ḏīvė baleh pacẖās. Cẖa­uṇė su­inā pā­ī­ai cẖuṇ cẖuṇ kẖāvai gẖās. Lohā māraṇ pā­ī­ai dẖahai na ho­ė kapās. Nānak mūrakẖ ėhi guṇ bolė saḏā viṇās.

What can deep water do to a fish? What can the vast sky do to a bird? What can coldly do to a stone? What is married life to a eunuch? You may apply sandalwood oil to a dog, but he will still be a dog. You may try to teach a deaf person by reading the Simritees (Hindu Scriptures) to him, but how will he learn? You may place a light before a blind man and burn fifty lamps, but how will he see? You may place gold before a herd of cattle, but they will pick out the grass to eat. You may add flux to iron and melt it, but it will not become soft like cotton. O Nanak, this is the nature of a spiritually ignorant-everything he speaks is useless and wasted. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Majh Ki Vaar, AGGS, Page, 143



ATTACHMENT/BONDAGE/ਮੋਹ


ABSTRACT


The word bondage in Sikh literature refers to the state or condition of being bound to a system or instinct.  It can be also an emotional attachment to a thing or person, which could be erotic in nature. This all happens in the mind, which has to be free from it for spiritual liberation. The mind can be both the source of bondage and the source of freedom. The world is in bondage through three modes of Maya as expressed by Guru Nanak in Siri Raag:

ਤ੍ਰਿਹੁ ਗੁਣ ਬੰਧੀ ਦੇਹੁਰੀ ਜੋ ਆਇਆ ਜਗਿ ਸੋ ਖੇਲੁ ॥
ਵਿਜੋਗੀ ਦੁਖਿ ਵਿਛੁੜੇ ਮਨਮੁਖਿ ਲਹਹਿ ਨ ਮੇਲੁ ॥
Tarihu Gun BanDhee Dayhuree Jo Aa-i-aa Jag So Khayl, Vijogee Dukh Vichhurhay Manmukh Laheh Na Mayl.

The three qualities of Maya hold the body in bondage; whoever comes into the world is subject to their play. Those who separate themselves from God wander lost in misery. The self-willed do not attain union with God. -----Guru Nanak, Siri Raag, AGGS, Page, 21-5

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Hinduism- Bondage arises from the bonds or attachments which beings form with the world. It is responsible for human suffering, delusion, ignorance, and continuation of the individual souls in the mortal world. The soul is eternally free, unattached, immutable and indestructible, but a living being is bound by his own actions, desires, and attachments which further bind him to the mortal world. You cannot easily escape from it, until you overcome desires and attachments, arrest the progression of karma, silence your ego, practice renunciation and become equal to the dualities of life. The Vedas affirm that neither through good actions nor through sacrificial ceremonies one can become free from bondage. Bondage arises because desire-ridden actions have consequences, which leave strong impressions in the mind.



Judaism- God promised freedom from bondage and gave the children of Israel Torah. Now, why would YHWH lead the people out of bondage in Egypt, lead them to Mt. Sinai, and deliver them right back into bondage again? And why would he at the same time promise them freedom? God is no liar. He promised the people freedom and he gave them Torah because the Torah is freedom from bondage.


Bible-And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience— among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind. -----Ephesians 2:1-3  ESV / 4


Buddhism-The flaws of cyclic existence: Relatives at home, enemies, friends, and possessions in the world are the causes of worry for the body and mind. Only virtuous actions can benefit others. Therefore, I will not be attached to these ties and I will cast them away as I would a snake in my lap.-----Buddha



Islam- O you who have attained to faith! Let not your worldly goods or your children make you oblivious of the remembrance of God: for if any behave thus - it is they, they who are the losers!         ----Quran- 63: 9-11


Sikhism- The whole world is in bondage through Ego (ਹਉਮੈ) and Maya as referred in the following hymns of Sikh Scripture:                              
ਹਉਮੈ ਬੰਧਨ ਬੰਧਿ ਭਵਾਵੈ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਰਾਮ ਭਗਤਿ ਸੁਖੁ ਪਾਵੈ ॥੮॥੧੩॥
Ha-umai BanDhan BanDh Bhavaavai. Nānak rām bẖagaṯ sukẖ pāvai. 

Egotism binds people in bondage and causes them to wander around lost. O Nanak, peace is obtained through the devotional worship of God. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Gauri, AGGS, Page, 227-1

In order to grow spiritually, one has to break this bondage of Maya by liberation obtained through the Will and Grace of God.  The state of liberation from human bondage is a spiritual state of being in tune with the Ultimate.  It is obtained by subjugating the lower instincts and developing the virtues and perfections, while one is still alive although dead at the material sensory level. Guru Nanak in Siri Raag and Guru Arjan in Raag Gauri ponder this issue:

ਬੰਦਿ ਖਲਾਸੀ ਭਾਣੈ ਹੋਇ ॥
ਹੋਰੁ ਆਖਿ ਨ ਸਕੈ ਕੋਇ ॥ 
Band Khalaasee Bhaanai Ho-ay, Hor Aakh Na Sakai Ko-ay.

Liberation from bondage comes only by God’s Will. No one else has any say in this. -----Guru Nanak, Siri Raag, AGGS, Page, 5-13

Guru Nanak explains in Raag Gauri that it is all the play of the mind:

ਮਨ ਤੇ ਉਪਜੈ ਮਨ ਮਾਹਿ ਸਮਾਇ ॥
ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਮੁਕਤੋ ਬੰਧੁ ਨ ਪਾਇ ॥
ਸਬਦੁ ਬੀਚਾਰਿ ਛੁਟੈ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਇ ॥ 
Man Tay Upjai Man Maahi Samaa-ay. Gurmukh Mukto BanDh Na Paa-ay, Sabd Beechaar Chhutai Har Naa-ay.

From the mind, we originate, and into the mind, we are absorbed. As Guru oriented, we are liberated, and are unbound. Contemplating the Word of the Sabd, we are emancipated through the Name of God. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Gauri, AGGS, Page, 152-1

ਜਾਤੋ ਜਾਇ ਕਹਾ ਤੇ ਆਵੈ ॥
ਕਹ ਉਪਜੈ ਕਹ ਜਾਇ ਸਮਾਵੈ ॥ 
ਕਿਉ ਬਾਧਿਓ ਕਿਉ ਮੁਕਤੀ ਪਾਵੈ ॥
ਕਿਉ ਅਬਿਨਾਸੀ ਸਹਜਿ ਸਮਾਵੈ ॥
Jāṯo jā▫e kahā ṯe āvai.Kah upjai kah jā▫e samāvai. Ki-o BaaDhi-o Ki-o Muktee Paavai, Ki-o Abhinaasee Sahj Samaavai.

How can we know where we came from? Where did we originate, and where will we go and merge? How are we bound, and how do we obtain liberation? How do we merge with intuitive ease into the Eternal God? -----Guru Nanak, Raag Gauri, AGGS, Page, 152-15

Guru Nanak in Raag Tukhari and Guru Arjan in Raag Maru describes the way of getting rid of bondage:
ਮਨਿ ਰਾਮੁ ਨਹੀ ਜਾਤਾ ਸਾਝ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤਾ ਅਵਘਟਿ ਰੁਧਾ ਕਿਆ ਕਰੇ ॥
ਬੰਧਨਿ ਬਾਧਿਆ ਇਨ ਬਿਧਿ ਛੂਟੈ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਸੇਵੈ ਨਰਹਰੇ ॥
Man Raam Nahee Jaataa Saajh Parbhataa Avghat RuDhaa Ki-aa Karay, BanDhan BaaDhi-aa In BiDh Chhootai Gurmukh Sayvai Narharay.

The mortal does not know God in the evening, or in the morning; trapped in the treacherous path, what will he do? Bound in bondage, he is released only by this method: as Guru oriented, serve God. ------Guru Nanak, Raag Tukhari, AGGS, Page, 1112-18

The love between parents, siblings, and a relative is bondage; an obstruction to spiritual growth:

ਮਾਤਾ ਪਿਤ ਭਾਈ ਸੁਤ ਚਤੁਰਾਈ ਸੰਗਿ ਨ ਸੰਪੈ ਨਾਰੇ ॥
ਸਾਇਰ ਕੀ ਪੁਤ੍ਰੀ ਪਰਹਰਿ ਤਿਆਗੀ ਚਰਣ ਤਲੈ ਵੀਚਾਰੇ ॥
Maataa Pit Bhaa-ee Sut Chaturaa-ee Sang Na Sampai Naaray, Saa-ir Kee Putree Parhar Ti-aagee Charan Talai Veechaaray.

Mother, father, family, children, cleverness, property, and spouses - none of these shall go with you. I have renounced Maya, the daughter of the ocean; reflecting upon reality, I have trampled it under my feet. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Asa, AGGS, Page, 437-11

ਮਾਤਾ ਪਿਤ ਭਾਈ ਸੁਤ ਚਤੁਰਾਈ ਸੰਗਿ ਨ ਸੰਪੈ ਨਾਰੇ ॥
ਸਾਇਰ ਕੀ ਪੁਤ੍ਰੀ ਪਰਹਰਿ ਤਿਆਗੀ ਚਰਣ ਤਲੈ ਵੀਚਾਰੇ ॥
Māṯā piṯā sabẖ heṯ hai heṯe palcẖā▫ī rām.Heṯe palcẖā▫ī purab kamā▫ī met na sakai ko▫ī. 

Mother and father - all are subject to this love; in this love, they are entangled on account of their past actions, which no one can erase.-----Guru Amar Das, Raag Vadhans, AGGS, Page, 571-11

This all happens in the mind, which has to be free from it for spiritual growth. As indicated earlier, the mind can be either the source of bondage or the source of freedom. It depends on how the mind is used. The right use of the mind under God’s Will becomes meditation and love for God.  The wrong use of the mind-controlled by self-will leads to material attachment or bondage of relations, as expressed in the following hymns of Sabd Guru:

ਮਨਮੁਖੁ ਮੋਹਿ ਵਿਆਪਿਆ ਬੈਰਾਗੁ ਉਦਾਸੀ ਨ ਹੋਇ ॥ 
ਸਤਗੁਰੁ ਸੇਵਿ ਮੋਹੁ ਪਰਜਲੈ ਘਰ ਹੀ ਮਾਹਿ ਉਦਾਸਾ ॥
Manmukh Moh Viaapiaa Bairag Udasee Na Hoey, Satgur Sayv Moh Parjaalai Ghar He Maa-eh Oudaasaa.

The self-willed person is engrossed in the love of the worldly pleasures and falsehood.  He cannot practice love for Truth. The Guru oriented get rid of the worldly love or passions through the service of the Guru and then enjoy the bliss of God’s love. -----Guru Amar Das, Siri Raag, AGGS, Page, 29-10-12

Guru Amar Das comments on the bondage between body and soul in Raag Gauri:

ਕਾਇਆ ਹੰਸ ਕਿਆ ਪ੍ਰੀਤਿ ਹੈ ਜਿ ਪਇਆ ਹੀ ਛਡਿ ਜਾਇ ॥
ਏਸ ਨੋ ਕੂੜੁ ਬੋਲਿ ਕਿ ਖਵਾਲੀਐ ਜਿ ਚਲਦਿਆ ਨਾਲਿ ਨ ਜਾਇ ॥
Kaaeia Hans Kia Preet Hai Peiaa Hee Chadd Jaaey, Ays No Koorh Bol Ke Khavaalee-ai Je Chaldi-aa Naal Na Jaa-ay.

What love is this between the body and soul, which ends when the body falls? Why feed it by telling lies? When you leave, it does not go with you. -----Guru Amar Das, Raag Gauri, AGGS, Page, 510-19

                                              ਮਾਇਆ ਮੋਹਿ ਸਭੋ ਜਗੁ ਬਾਧਾ ॥
                                           ਹਉਮੈ ਪਚੈ ਮਨਮੁਖ ਮੂਰਾਖਾ ॥
                                 ਗੁਰ ਨਾਨਕ ਬਾਹ ਪਕਰਿ ਹਮ ਰਾਖਾ ॥੪॥੨॥੯੬॥
  Maa-i-aa Mohi Sabho Jag BaaDhaa. Ha▫umai pacẖai manmukẖ mūrākẖā.Gur Nānak bāh pakar ham rākẖā. 

Attached to Maya, the whole world is in bondage. The foolish self-willed are consumed by their egotism. Taking me by the arm, Guru Nanak has saved me. -----Guru Arjun, Raag Gauri, AGGS, Page, 394-17

                                                ਕਰਿ ਕਿਰਪਾ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਬੰਧਨ ਛੋਟ ॥
                                                     ਚਰਣ ਕਮਲ ਕੀ ਦੀਨੀ ਓਟ ॥੩॥
Kar Kirpaa Parabh BanDhan Chhot. Cẖaraṇ kamal kī ḏīnī ot. 

Granting Its Grace, God has released me from bondage and has given me the Support of Its Lotus Feet.-----Guru Arjun, Raag Gauri, AGGS, Page, 194-11

Once a person has centered his mind on the right thought, achieved meditation, and gained poise, he is beyond our normal morality and tradition. He is beyond our limitations, does not judge, and ignores the bad and is just oriented towards the good. When the mind is functioning on the wrong thought, whatsoever one does, or chooses, or decides will be wrong. The mind has the faculty to imagine. Paintings, art, dance, music, meditation, they all spring from imagination. However, everything that is ugly has also come through imagination. One has to start the process of re-learning and straightening the thought process into thinking the right thoughts until it becomes second nature. It is then that one is on the right path of spiritual progress and can utilize the tools provided in AGGS.

ਸਿਫਤਿ ਮੁਹਬਤਿ ਅਥਾਹ ਰਹੀਮਾ ॥
ਹਕੁ ਹੁਕਮੁ ਸਚੁ ਖੁਦਾਇਆ ਬੁਝਿ ਨਾਨਕ ਬੰਦਿ ਖਲਾਸ ਤਰਾ ॥
Sifat Muhabat Athaah Raheemaa, Hak Hukam Sach Khudaa-i-aa Bujh Nanak Band Khalaas Taraa.

The Qualities and the Love of the Merciful God are unfathomable. Realize the True Will, the Command of the Creator, O Nanak; you shall be released from bondage and carried across.-----Guru Arjun, Raag Maru, AGGS, Page, 1084-13

Guru Tegh Bahadur advises in Raag Sorath and Sarang:

ਪ੍ਰੀਤਮ ਜਾਨਿ ਲੇਹੁ ਮਨ ਮਾਹੀ ॥
ਅਪਨੇ ਸੁਖ ਸਿਉ ਹੀ ਜਗੁ ਫਾਂਧਿਓ ਕੋ ਕਾਹੂ ਕੋ ਨਾਹੀ ॥
ਸੁਖ ਮੈ ਆਨਿ ਬਹੁਤੁ ਮਿਲਿ ਬੈਠਤ ਰਹਤ ਚਹੂ ਦਿਸਿ ਘੇਰੈ ॥ 
ਬਿਪਤਿ ਪਰੀ ਸਭ ਹੀ ਸੰਗੁ ਛਾਡਿਤ ਕੋਊ ਨ ਆਵਤ ਨੇਰੈ ॥
ਘਰ ਕੀ ਨਾਰਿ ਬਹੁਤੁ ਹਿਤੁ ਜਾ ਸਿਉ ਸਦਾ ਰਹਤ ਸੰਗ ਲਾਗੀ ॥
ਜਬ ਹੀ ਹੰਸ ਤਜੀ ਇਹ ਕਾਂਇਆ ਪ੍ਰੇਤ ਪ੍ਰੇਤ ਕਰਿ ਭਾਗੀ ॥
ਇਹ ਬਿਧਿ ਕੋ ਬਿਉਹਾਰੁ ਬਨਿਓ ਹੈ ਜਾ ਸਿਉ ਨੇਹੁ ਲਗਾਇਓ ॥
ਅੰਤ ਬਾਰ ਨਾਨਕ ਬਿਨੁ ਹਰਿ ਜੀ ਕੋਊ ਕਾਮਿ ਨ ਆਇਓ ॥
 Pritam Jaan Leh Man Maahi, Aapnay Sukh Seo He Jug Fandhio Ko Kahu Ko Naahi, Sukh Mea Aan Bahut Mil Bethatt Rahat Chahoo Dis Gherai, Bipat Paree Sabh He Sung Chaadat Koou Na Aavat Nerai, Ghar Ki Naar Bahut Hit Ja Seo Sada Rahat Sung Laagee, Jub He Hans Tajee Eh Kaaneyaa Preat Preat Kar Bhaagee, Eh Bidh Ko Beohaar Baneo Hai Ja Seo Nehu Lagaaeou,Unt Baar Nanak Bin Har Ji Koou Kaam Na Aaeou.

O, dear friend, know this in your mind. The world is entangled in its own pleasures; no one is for anyone else. In good times, many come and sit together, surrounding you on all four sides. But when hard times come, they all leave, and no one comes near you. Your wife, whom you love so much, may have remained ever attached to you.  But she runs away crying, "Ghost! Ghost!", as soon as the swan-soul leaves your body. This is the way of the world.  Among those whom we love so much, at the final moment, O Nanak, no one is any use at all, except the Dear God. -----Guru Tegh Bahadur, Raag Sorath, Page, 634

ਹਰਿ ਬਿਨੁ ਤੇਰੋ ਕੋ ਨ ਸਹਾਈ ॥
ਕਾਂ ਕੀ ਮਾਤ ਪਿਤਾ ਸੁਤ ਬਨਿਤਾ ਕੋ ਕਾਹੂ ਕੋ ਭਾਈ ॥
ਧਨੁ ਧਰਨੀ ਅਰੁ ਸੰਪਤਿ ਸਗਰੀ ਜੋ ਮਾਨਿਓ ਅਪਨਾਈ ॥
ਤਨ ਛੂਟੈ ਕਛੁ ਸੰਗਿ ਨ ਚਾਲੈ ਕਹਾ ਤਾਹਿ ਲਪਟਾਈ ॥
Har Bin Tayro Ko Na Sahaa-ee, KaaN Kee Maat Pitaa Sut Banitaa Ko Kaahoo Ko Bhaa-ee. Dhan Dharnee Ar Sampat Sagree Jo Maani-o Apnaa-ee, Tan Chhootai Kachh Sang Na Chaalai Kahaa Taahi Laptaa-ee.

No one can offer help and support, except God. Who has any mother, father, child or spouse? Who is anyone's brother or sister? All the wealth, land, and property which you consider your own, when you leave your body, none of it shall go along with you. Why do you cling to them? -----Guru Tegh Bahadur, Raag Sarang, AGGS, Page, 1231-8

ਨਿਜ ਕਰਿ ਦੇਖਿਓ ਜਗਤੁ ਮੈ ਕੋ ਕਾਹੂ ਕੋ ਨਾਹਿ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਥਿਰੁ ਹਰਿ ਭਗਤਿ ਹੈ ਤਿਹ ਰਾਖੋ ਮਨ ਮਾਹਿ ॥.
Nij Kar Daykhi-o Jagat Mai Ko Kaahoo Ko Naahi, Nanak Thir Har Bhagat Hai Tih Raakho Man Maahi.

I had looked upon the world as my own, but no one belongs to anyone else. O, Nanak, only devotional worship of God is permanent.  Enshrine this in your mind. -----Sloke Guru Tegh Bahadur 48, AGGS, Page, 1429-1

What keeps us constantly struggling with life is the attitude of non-acceptance, of not trusting the basic process of life unfolding. We suffer under the false assumption that the goal of life is to always avoid what we find unpleasant and to try to dwell in constant comfort.

Kabir advises that the bondage is temporary and false during the present life. 

ਕਬੀਰ ਸਭੁ ਜਗੁ ਹਉ ਫਿਰਿਓ ਮਾਂਦਲੁ ਕੰਧ ਚਢਾਇ ॥
ਕੋਈ ਕਾਹੂ ਕੋ ਨਹੀ ਸਭ ਦੇਖੀ ਠੋਕਿ ਬਜਾਇ ॥
Kabir Sabh JKag Ha-o Firi-o MaaNdal KanDh Chadhaa-ay, Ko-ee Kaahoo Ko Nahee Sabh Daykhee Thok Bajaa-ay.

Kabir, I have wandered all over the world, carrying the drum on my shoulder. No one belongs to anyone else; I have looked and carefully studied it. -----Kabir Sloke # 113, AGGS, Page, 1370-9,10


Conclusion:



In Sikh thought, the ideal state is “being dead while alive” (ਜੀਵਨ ਮੁਕਤ), which is achieved by living an ethical and spiritual course of life.  By subjugating the lower instincts one is born with and development of virtues and perfections, to be blessed by God’s Grace.

Guru Nanak describes these entanglements in Sri Raag and Raag Asa

ਕੇਤੇ ਬੰਧਨ ਜੀਅ ਕੇ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਮੋਖ ਦੁਆਰ ॥
ਸਚਹੁ ਓਰੈ ਸਭੁ ਕੋ ਉਪਰਿ ਸਚੁ ਆਚਾਰੁ ॥ 
Kaytay BanDhan Jee-a Kay Gurmukh Mokh Du-aar, Suchoh Oorai Sabh Ko Ooper Such Aachaar

There are so many entanglements for the soul. Only as Guru oriented do we find the Gate of Liberation. Truth is above all, and above Truth is Truthful conduct. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Sri, AGGS, Page 62-11
ਬੰਧਨ ਮਾਤ ਪਿਤਾ ਸੰਸਾਰਿ ॥ 
ਬੰਧਨ ਸੁਤ ਕੰਨਿਆ ਅਰੁ ਨਾਰਿ ॥
ਬੰਧਨ ਕਰਮ ਧਰਮ ਹਉ ਕੀਆ ॥
 ਬੰਧਨ ਪੁਤੁ ਕਲਤੁ ਮਨਿ ਬੀਆ ॥ 
ਬੰਧਨ ਕਿਰਖੀ ਕਰਹਿ ਕਿਰਸਾਨ ॥
ਹਉਮੈ ਡੰਨੁ ਸਹੈ ਰਾਜਾ ਮੰਗੈ ਦਾਨ ॥
ਬੰਧਨ ਸਉਦਾ ਅਣਵੀਚਾਰੀ ॥
ਤਿਪਤਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਮਾਇਆ ਮੋਹ ਪਸਾਰੀ ॥
ਬੰਧਨ ਸਾਹ ਸੰਚਹਿ ਧਨੁ ਜਾਇ ॥ 
ਬਿਨੁ ਹਰਿ ਭਗਤਿ ਨ ਪਵਈ ਥਾਇ ॥
ਬੰਧਨ ਬੇਦੁ ਬਾਦੁ ਅਹੰਕਾਰ ॥
 ਬੰਧਨਿ ਬਿਨਸੈ ਮੋਹ ਵਿਕਾਰ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਰਾਮ ਨਾਮ ਸਰਣਾਈ ॥ 
ਸਤਿਗੁਰਿ ਰਾਖੇ ਬੰਧੁ ਨ ਪਾਈ ॥
Banḏẖan māṯ piṯā sansār. Banḏẖan suṯ kanniā ar nār. Banḏẖan karam ḏẖaram ha­o kī­ā. Banḏẖan puṯ kalaṯ man bī­ā. Banḏẖan kirkẖī karahi kirsān. Ha­umai dann sahai rājā mangai ḏān. Banḏẖan sa­uḏā aṇvīcẖārī. Ŧipaṯ nāhī mā­i­ā moh pasārī. Banḏẖan sāh saʼncẖeh ḏẖan jā­ė. Bin har bẖagaṯ na pav­ī thā­ė. Banḏẖan bėḏ bāḏ ahaʼnkār. Banḏẖan binsai moh vikār. Nānak rām nām sarṇā­ī. Saṯgur rākẖė banḏẖ na pā­ī.

People are entangled with the mother, the father, and the world. They are entangled with sons, daughters, and spouses. They are entangled with religious rituals, and religious faith while acting with ego. They are entangled with the sons, the wives, and the others in their minds. The farmers are entangled by farming. People suffer punishment in ego, and the God-King exacts a penalty from them. They are entangled in trade without contemplation. They are not satisfied with the attachment to the expanse of Maya. They are entangled with the wealth amassed by the bankers. Without devotion to God, they do not become acceptable. They are entangled with the Vedas, religious discussions, and egotism. They are entangled and perish in attachment and corruption. Nanak seeks the Sanctuary of God's Name. One who is saved by the True Guru (God), does not suffer entanglement. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Asa, AGGS, Page, 416



ATTITUDE/ਦਸਤੂਰ/ਤੌਰ


ABSTRACT


 Attitude is a complex mental state involving beliefs, feelings, values, and dispositions to act in certain ways.  It affects the choices one makes. An attitude of gratitude creates happiness because it makes us feel full and complete. It is the realization that we have everything we need, at least in the present moment. Gratitude bears only positive feelings -- love, compassion, joy, and hope.  It melts away fear, anger, and bitterness.
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Sikh philosophy revolves around “Naam/Name of God” and it revolves around controlling the mind. The mind needs God’s Grace for its control. God’s Grace is blessed to those individuals who become better humans by an active effort of subjugating the lower instincts. They do so by asking God in their prayers, to remove their character defects. They then develop the higher virtues.

     · If the lower instincts dominate the higher ones, the result is a negative attitude.

      · If the higher instincts dominate or kill the lower instincts, the result is Spiritual Progress with a positive attitude:

ਖਿਮਾ ਗਹੀ ਸਚੁ ਸੰਚਿਓ ਖਾਇਓ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤੁ ਨਾਮ ॥
ਖਰੀ ਕ੍ਰਿਪਾ ਠਾਕੁਰ ਭਈ ਅਨਦ ਸੂਖ ਬਿਸ੍ਰਾਮ ॥
Khima Gahee Such Sancheo Khaaeyo Amrit Naam, Khari Kirpa Thakur Bhayee Anand Sookh Bisraam.

Adopting an attitude of forgiveness and garnering truth, one partakes in the Ambrosial Nectar of the Name. I have been blessed with the Guru’s Grace, and I gained complete peace and tranquility of mind. -----Guru Arjun, Gauri Bawan Akhree, AGGS, Page 261-8

I will be the first to admit that when I've failed in life, I've caused my own failures. My attitude hasn't always been a positive one.  I spent that time in my life focusing on the negative rather than the positive, on the limitations rather than on the potentials, on what I was missing rather than on what I had. I can’t tell you when the change occurred, or where, or how. It's been a long process.  I must keep working in order to keep it going. I have learned through reading, deliberating, reflecting in action, watching people, and asking questions.  I had to learn that my world is what I make of it.  I have been blessed with many gifts, but it's up to me whether I use them.  If I do not, I'm pretty much wasting my time on this planet. I always saw this as something that was so easy to say, because people who had their acts together always said it.

It took me a while to realize that by focusing on the negative things in my life, I was perpetuating them through my fears. As I slowly began to shift my focus to the positive, I found that life became more and more positive as I detached myself away from it. Eventually, I became one of the people who say that it's your attitude more than anything else that determines how your life goes.

ਗੁਰ ਮਿਲਿ ਭਉ ਗੋਵਿੰਦ ਕਾ ਭੈ ਡਰੁ ਦੂਰਿ ਕਰਣਾ ॥
 ਭੈ ਤੇ ਬੈਰਾਗੁ ਊਪਜੈ ਹਰਿ ਖੋਜਤ ਫਿਰਣਾ ॥
 ਖੋਜਤ ਖੋਜਤ ਸਹਜੁ ਉਪਜਿਆ ਫਿਰਿ ਜਨਮਿ ਨ ਮਰਣਾ ॥
Gur mil bẖa▫o govinḏ kā bẖai dar ḏūr karṇā. Bhai Tay Bairaag Oupjai Har Khojat Firna, Khojat Khojat Sehaj Opje-aa Fir Janam Na Marna.

Meeting with the Guru, you shall know the Fear of God, and other fears shall be taken away. Through the reverence respect of God, the attitude of detachment wells up, and one sets out in search of God. The persons who have imbibed in the wonder and awe of God in the company of the Guru have cast away all the fears of death.-----Guru Arjun, Raag Maru, AGGS, Page 1102-8

When I started to change my attitude, I started to see that life doesn't determine who I am or how happy or unhappy I am--life doesn't care. The world is impersonal. But I care, and I prefer to be positive and happy. I'm much better to myself when I am, and I'm much better for others when I am. Our attitude tells the world what we expect in return.  If it's a cheerful, expectant attitude, it says to everyone with whom we come in contact that we expect the best in our dealings with the world. You see, we tend to live up to our expectations.  And others give to us, as far as their attitudes are concerned, what we expect.  Our attitude is something we can control.  We can establish our attitude each morning when we start our day.  In fact, we do just that, whether or not we realize it.  And the people in our family -- all the people in our world -- will reflect back to us the attitude we present to them.  It is, then, our attitude toward life that determines life's attitude toward us.  Everything we say or do will cause a corresponding effect.  If we're cheerful, glad to be experiencing this miracle of life, others will reflect that good cheer back to us.

A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.  Attitudes are contagious.  Are yours worth catching?  If you don't get everything you want, think of the things you don't get that you don't want.

“I had the blues because I had no shoes until upon the street; I met a man who had no feet.”                                                                                                                  ~ Read somewhere.

If you don't think every day is a good day, just try missing one.  It's so hard when I must, and so easy when I want to.                                                                                            ~Annie Gottlier.

Oh, my friend, it's not what they take away from you that counts.  It's what you do with what you have left.                                                                                                           ~Hubert Humphrey.

Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.                                       ~Winston Churchill.

Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day. Happiness is an attitude.  We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong.  The amount of work is the same. He who has so little knowledge of human nature as to seek happiness by changing anything but his own disposition will waste his life in fruitless efforts. If you don't like something change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it.

“Listen to your heart. Listen to your instincts. Listen to the inner voice. It is your true self. It will guide you to make the right choices.”

Braver is he who overcomes his desires than he who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is over self. Growing old is mandatory but growing up is optional.

All the while I'm working to change my attitude: 

I let go of revenge. 

I want to "get well," instead of "get even." 

I will no longer wallow in resentment. 

I still have wounds, but I no longer nurse them: instead, 

I immerse them in helping others; and 

I reverse them by changing my negatives into positives. 

I am on my way to becoming Weller than well! -----Dr. Robert Schuller.

The only people who find what they are looking for in life are the fault finders.  Think big thoughts but relish small pleasures. Every thought is a seed.  If you plant crab apples, don't count on harvesting Golden Delicious. Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed. To be upset over what you don't have is to waste what you do have. The only disability in life is a bad attitude.  My riches consist not in the extent of my possessions, but in the fewness of my wants.  There is nothing so easy but that it becomes difficult when you do it reluctantly. Just because you're miserable doesn't mean you can't enjoy your life.

Conclusion:

With a positive attitude, we become the kind of people others enjoy being around by living life according to the steps contained in Sabd Guru. Attitude controls our destination and destiny in life. Metaphorically Guru Arjun describes the humble attitude of poor Bidar, son of a maid, who was accorded salvation by Krishna’s visit to his house.

                                               ਬਿਦਰੁ ਉਧਾਰਿਓ ਦਾਸਤ ਭਾਇ ॥ 
                                                     ਰੇ ਮਨ ਤੂ ਭੀ ਹਰਿ ਧਿਆਇ ॥                                                           
 Bidar Udhario Daasat Bhaaey, Ray Man To Bhi Har Dhiaa-ey.

Bidar was saved by his attitude of humility. O my mind! You should also contemplate; deliberate with a reflection on God. -----Guru Arjun Raag Basant, AGGS, Page 1192-6




AVGUN/ਅਵਗੁਣ


Meaning-ਵਿਕਾਰ, ਭੈੜੇ ਗੁਣ, {ਸੰਗ੍ਯਾ}. ਗੁਣ ਦੇ ਵਿਰੁੱਧ (ਉਲਟ). (1). ਐਬ। (2) ਪਾਪ। (3) ਅਪਰਾਧ./ਦੋਸ, which indirectly directs towards five thieves (Lust, Anger, Greed, Attachment, Vanity) described often in AGGS.
ਅਵਗੁਣੀ ਭਰਪੂਰ ਹੈ ਗੁਣ ਭੀ ਵਸਹਿ ਨਾਲਿ ॥
ਵਿਣੁ ਸਤਗੁਰ ਗੁਣ ਨ ਜਾਪਨੀ ਜਿਚਰੁ ਸਬਦਿ ਨ ਕਰੇ ਬੀਚਾਰੁ ॥
Avguṇī bẖarpūr hai guṇ bẖī vaseh nāl, viṇ saṯgur guṇ na jāpnī jicẖar sabaḏ na karė bīcẖār.

He is overflowing with faults and demerits, but virtue dwells within him as well. Without the True Guru, he does not see God's Virtues; he does not chant the Glorious Virtues of God.-----Guru Nanak, Raag Ramkali, AGGS, Page, 934-19 and 936-9

ਭੂਡੜੈ ਨਾਮੁ ਵਿਸਾਰਿਆ ਬੂਡੜੈ ਕਿਆ ਤਿਸੁ ਚਾਰੋ ॥ 
ਗੁਣ ਛੋਡਿ ਬਿਖੁ ਲਦਿਆ ਅਵਗੁਣ ਕਾ ਵਣਜਾਰੋ ॥
Bẖūdṛai nām visāri¬ā būdṛai ki¬ā ṯis cẖāro, Guṇ cẖẖod bikẖ laḏi¬ā avguṇ kā vaṇjāro.

The evil person has forgotten the Naam; he has drowned - what can he do now? Forsaking merit, he has loaded the poisonous cargo of demerits; he is a trader of sins. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Vadhans Dakhani, AGGS, Page, 580-13

ਨਾਨਾ ਕਰਤ ਨ ਛੂਟੀਐ ਵਿਣੁ ਗੁਣ ਜਮ ਪੁਰਿ ਜਾਹਿ ॥
ਨਾ ਤਿਸੁ ਏਹੁ ਨ ਓਹੁ ਹੈ ਅਵਗੁਣਿ ਫਿਰਿ ਪਛੁਤਾਹਿ ॥
Nānā karaṯ na cẖẖūtī▫ai viṇ guṇ jam pur jāhi. Nā ṯis ėhu na oh hai avguṇ fir pacẖẖuṯāhi.

Through various rituals, one does not find release. Without virtue, one is sent to the City of Death. One will not have this world or the next; committing sinful mistakes, one comes to regret and repent in the end.-----Guru Nanak, Raag Ramkali, AGGS, Page, 934-19

ਲੋਕੁ ਅਵਗਣਾ ਕੀ ਬੰਨ੍ਹ੍ਹੈ ਗੰਠੜੀ ਗੁਣ ਨ ਵਿਹਾਝੈ ਕੋਇ ॥ 
ਗੁਣ ਕਾ ਗਾਹਕੁ ਨਾਨਕਾ ਵਿਰਲਾ ਕੋਈ ਹੋਇ ॥ 
ਗੁਰ ਪਰਸਾਦੀ ਗੁਣ ਪਾਈਅਨ੍ਹ੍ਹਿ ਜਿਸ ਨੋ ਨਦਰਿ ਕਰੇਇ ॥
ਗੁਣ ਅਵਗੁਣ ਸਮਾਨਿ ਹਹਿ ਜਿ ਆਪਿ ਕੀਤੇ ਕਰਤਾਰਿ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਹੁਕਮਿ ਮੰਨਿਐ ਸੁਖੁ ਪਾਈਐ ਗੁਰ ਸਬਦੀ ਵੀਚਾਰਿ ॥
Lok avgaṇā kī banĥai ganṯẖ¬ṛī guṇ na vihājẖai ko¬ė, Guṇ kā gāhak nānkā virlā ko¬ī ho¬ė, Gur parsādī guṇ pā¬ī¬aniĥ jis no naḏar karė¬i. Guṇ avguṇ samān heh je āp kīṯė karṯār, Nānak hukam mani¬ai sukẖ pā¬ī¬ai gur sabḏī vīcẖār.

People tie up bundles of demerits; no one deals in virtue. Rare is that person, O Nanak, who purchases virtue. By Guru's Grace, one is blessed with virtue, when God bestows Its Glance of Grace. Merits and demerits are the same; they are both created by the Creator. O Nanak, one who obeys Will of God, finds peace, contemplating the Word of the Guru's Sabd. -----Guru Amar Das, Raag Maru, AGGS, Page, 1092-14
ਕਬੀਰ ਮਨੁ ਜਾਨੈ ਸਭ ਬਾਤ ਜਾਨਤ ਹੀ ਅਉਗਨੁ ਕਰੈ ॥ 
ਕਾਹੇ ਕੀ ਕੁਸਲਾਤ ਹਾਥਿ ਦੀਪੁ ਕੂਏ ਪਰੈ ॥
Kabīr man jānai sabẖ bāṯ jānaṯ hī a¬ugan karai, Kāhė kī kuslāṯ hāth ḏīp kū¬ė parai.

Kabir, the mortal knows everything, and knowing, he still makes mistakes; what good is a lamp in one’s hand, if he falls in to well?  -----Kabir Sloke, 216, AGGS, Page, 1376   




BEAUTY IN SIKHISM


ABSTRACT


What is Beauty?

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder as the saying goes. It is of two types:

1.      Physical beauty is temporary and false based on external appearance because it is subjective and depends on senses. Self-willed who care only for themselves have a skin-deep superficial beauty. 
2.      Spiritual/inner beauty is permanent and depends on the devotional love of the individual.

The beauty in Sikhism is spiritual in nature and not physical. Spiritual beauty is real beauty because it's in the heart and soul of the person.

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Question arises:

How do you attain this inner beauty?

It is attained by elevating one’s self above the physical and mental states into an ecstatic state of wholeness (4rth State) as Guru oriented (ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ) individual. Their inner beauty radiates an inner glow than merely someone who is just about physical beauty. It is obtained through the devotional love of God and living under Its Will leading to inner mental peace, confidence, and happiness.  Physical attractiveness is no longer a concern due to inner balance. They no longer are subjected to five vices as they are the ocean of virtues. They will eventually attract quality people into their life who love them with mind body and soul.

Questions arise:

1.      Is it possible for someone to have both natural and spiritual beauty?
2.      Is it also possible to be ugly, both inside and out?
3.      Is it possible to be ugly and be spiritually beautiful? 

The answer to all the questions is yes.
A woman can both be physically beautiful and be Guru oriented (ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ) with spiritual beauty.
Self-willed can both be ugly inside and out.
An ugly person can be spiritually beautiful.

ਰਾਜੁ ਰੂਪੁ ਝੂਠਾ ਦਿਨ ਚਾਰਿ ॥ 
ਨਾਮੁ ਮਿਲੈ ਚਾਨਣੁ ਅੰਧਿਆਰਿ ॥੨॥
Rāj rūp jẖūṯẖā ḏin cẖār. Nām milai cẖānaṇ anḏẖi▫ār. 

Power and beauty are false and last for only a few days. But when one is blessed with the Naam, the darkness within is illuminated. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Bilawal, AGGS, Page, 796-2

ਕਾਮਨਿ ਚਾਹੈ ਸੁੰਦਰਿ ਭੋਗੁ ॥ 
ਪਾਨ ਫੂਲ ਮੀਠੇ ਰਸ ਰੋਗ ॥
 ਖੀਲੈ ਬਿਗਸੈ ਤੇਤੋ ਸੋਗ ॥
ਪ੍ਰਭ ਸਰਣਾਗਤਿ ਕੀਨ੍ਹ੍ਹਸਿ ਹੋਗ ॥੫॥
Kāman cẖāhai sunḏar bẖog. Pān fūl mīṯẖe ras rog.Kẖīlai bigsai ṯeṯo sog.Parabẖ sarṇāgaṯ kīnĥas hog.

The woman desires beauty and pleasure, which leads to a spiritual malady. But betel leaves, garlands of flowers, and sweet tastes lead only to disease. The more she plays and enjoys, the more she suffers in sorrow. But when she enters into the Sanctuary of God, whatever she wishes comes to pass. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Basant, AGGS, Page, 1187-12

ਰਾਜੰ ਰੰਗੰ ਰੂਪੰ ਮਾਲੰ ਜੋਬਨੁ ਤੇ ਜੂਆਰੀ ॥
ਹੁਕਮੀ ਬਾਧੇ ਪਾਸੈ ਖੇਲਹਿ ਚਉਪੜਿ ਏਕਾ ਸਾਰੀ ॥੪॥
Rājaʼn rangaʼn rūpaʼn mālaʼn joban ṯe jū▫ārī. Hukmī bāḏẖe pāsai kẖelėh cẖa▫upaṛ ekā sārī. 

In power, pleasures, beauty, wealth and youth, one gambles his life away. Bound by the Will of God's Command, the dice are thrown; he is just a piece in the game of chess. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Maru, AGGS, Page, 1015-18
ਦੁਖੀ ਦੁਨੀ ਸਹੇੜੀਐ ਜਾਇ ਤ ਲਗਹਿ ਦੁਖ ॥
 ਨਾਨਕ ਸਚੇ ਨਾਮ ਬਿਨੁ ਕਿਸੈ ਨ ਲਥੀ ਭੁਖ ॥
ਰੂਪੀ ਭੁਖ ਨ ਉਤਰੈ ਜਾਂ ਦੇਖਾਂ ਤਾਂ ਭੁਖ ॥
ਜੇਤੇ ਰਸ ਸਰੀਰ ਕੇ ਤੇਤੇ ਲਗਹਿ ਦੁਖ ॥
Ḏukẖī ḏunī saheṛī▫ai jā▫e ṯa lagėh ḏukẖ. Nānak sacẖe nām bin kisai na lathī bẖukẖ. Roopi Bhukh Na Utrai Jaan Dekhan Tan Bukh, Jetay Rus Sreer Kay Tetay Lageh Dukh.

Worldly possessions are obtained by pain and suffering; when they are gone, they leave pain and suffering. O Nanak, without the True Name, hunger is never satisfied. Beauty does not satisfy hunger; when the man sees beauty, he hungers even more. Pleasures of the body are as numerous as the pains that afflict it.-----Guru Nanak, Raag Malar, AGGS, Page, 1287-14

ਰੂਪੈ ਕਾਮੈ ਦੋਸਤੀ ਭੁਖੈ ਸਾਦੈ ਗੰਢੁ ॥
ਲਬੈ ਮਾਲੈ ਘੁਲਿ ਮਿਲਿ ਮਿਚਲਿ ਊਂਘੈ ਸਉੜਿ ਪਲੰਘੁ ॥
ਭੰਉਕੈ ਕੋਪੁ ਖੁਆਰੁ ਹੋਇ ਫਕੜੁ ਪਿਟੇ ਅੰਧੁ ॥
ਚੁਪੈ ਚੰਗਾ ਨਾਨਕਾ ਵਿਣੁ ਨਾਵੈ ਮੁਹਿ ਗੰਧੁ ॥੧॥
Roopai Kaamai Dosti Bhukhai Saadai Gandh. Labai mālai gẖul mil micẖal ūʼngẖai sa▫uṛ palangẖ.Bẖaʼnukai kop kẖu▫ār ho▫e fakaṛ pite anḏẖ.Cẖupai cẖanga nānkā viṇ nāvai muhi ganḏẖ. 

Beauty and sexual desire are friends much as hunger and tasty food are tied together. Greed is bound up in its search for wealth, and sleep will use even a tiny space as a bed. Anger barks and brings ruin on itself, blindly pursuing useless conflicts. It is good to be silent, O Nanak; without the Name, one's mouth spews forth only filth.-----Guru Nanak, Raag Malar, AGGS, Page, 1288-13

Spiritual beauty is what matters most, and that depends on what you love! Guru Nanak in Raag Asa and Guru Arjun in Ragas Mali Gaurha and Tilang describe the profound beauty of God in three worlds;
ਤ੍ਰਿਭਵਣ ਦੇਵਾ ਸਗਲ ਸਰੂਪੁ ॥
ਮੈ ਸੋ ਧਨੁ ਪਲੈ ਸਾਚੁ ਅਖੂਟੁ ॥੪॥
Ŧaribẖavaṇ ḏevā sagal sarūp. Mai so ḏẖan palai sācẖ akẖūt.

God beholds the divine beauty in all the three worlds. That inexhaustible wealth of Truth is now in my lap. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Asa, AGGS, Page, 414-1

ਰਾਜੁ ਮਾਲੁ ਰੂਪੁ ਜਾਤਿ ਜੋਬਨੁ ਪੰਜੇ ਠਗ ॥
ਏਨੀ ਠਗੀਂ ਜਗੁ ਠਗਿਆ ਕਿਨੈ ਨ ਰਖੀ ਲਜ ॥ 
ਏਨਾ ਠਗਨ੍ਹ੍ਹਿ ਠਗ ਸੇ ਜਿ ਗੁਰ ਕੀ ਪੈਰੀ ਪਾਹਿ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਕਰਮਾ ਬਾਹਰੇ ਹੋਰਿ ਕੇਤੇ ਮੁਠੇ ਜਾਹਿ ॥੨॥
Rāj māl rūp jāṯ joban panje ṯẖag. Ėnī ṯẖagīʼn jag ṯẖagi▫ā kinai na rakẖī laj.Ėnā ṯẖagniĥ ṯẖag se jė gur kī pairī pāhi.Nānak karmā bāhre hor keṯe muṯẖe jāhi.

Royal power, wealth, beauty, social status, and youth are the five thieves. These thieves have plundered the world; no one's honor has been spared. But these thieves themselves are robbed, by those who fall at the Guru's Feet. O Nanak, the multitudes who do not have good karma are plundered. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Malar, AGGS, Page, 1288-14

ਨ ਭੀਜੈ ਰਾਗੀ ਨਾਦੀ ਬੇਦਿ ॥
 ਨ ਭੀਜੈ ਸੁਰਤੀ ਗਿਆਨੀ ਜੋਗਿ ॥
ਨ ਭੀਜੈ ਸੋਗੀ ਕੀਤੈ ਰੋਜਿ ॥
 ਨ ਭੀਜੈ ਰੂਪੀਂ ਮਾਲੀਂ ਰੰਗਿ ॥
ਨ ਭੀਜੈ ਤੀਰਥਿ ਭਵਿਐ ਨੰਗਿ ॥
ਨ ਭੀਜੈ ਦਾਤੀਂ ਕੀਤੈ ਪੁੰਨਿ ॥
ਨ ਭੀਜੈ ਬਾਹਰਿ ਬੈਠਿਆ ਸੁੰਨਿ ॥
ਨ ਭੀਜੈ ਭੇੜਿ ਮਰਹਿ ਭਿੜਿ ਸੂਰ ॥ 
ਨ ਭੀਜੈ ਕੇਤੇ ਹੋਵਹਿ ਧੂੜ ॥ 
ਲੇਖਾ ਲਿਖੀਐ ਮਨ ਕੈ ਭਾਇ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਭੀਜੈ ਸਾਚੈ ਨਾਇ ॥੨॥
Na bẖījai rāgī nāḏī beḏ.Na bẖījai surṯī gi▫ānī jog.Na bẖījai sogī kīṯai roj.Na bẖījai rūpīʼn mālīʼn rang.Na bẖījai ṯirath bẖavi▫ai nang.Na bẖījai ḏāṯīʼn kīṯai punn.Na bẖījai bāhar baiṯẖi▫ā sunn. Na bẖījai bẖeṛ marėh bẖiṛ sūr.Na bẖījai keṯe hovėh ḏẖūṛ.Lekẖā likī▫ai man kai bẖā▫e.Nānak bẖījai sācẖai nā▫e. 

God is not won over by music, songs, or the Vedas. God is not won over by intuitive wisdom, meditation, or Yoga. God is not won over by feeling sad and depressed forever. God is not won over by beauty, wealth, and pleasures. God is not won over by wandering naked at sacred shrines. God is not won over by giving donations to charity. God is not won over by living alone in the wilderness. God is not won over by fighting and dying as a warrior in battle. God is not won over by becoming the dust of the masses. The account is written of the loves of the mind. O Nanak, God is won over only by Its Name. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Sarang, AGGS, Page, 1237

ਸਭਿ ਅਵਗਣ ਮੈ ਗੁਣੁ ਨਹੀ ਕੋਈ ॥
ਕਿਉ ਕਰਿ ਕੰਤ ਮਿਲਾਵਾ ਹੋਈ ॥
ਨਾ ਮੈ ਰੂਪੁ ਨ ਬੰਕੇ ਨੈਣਾ ॥
ਨਾ ਕੁਲ ਢੰਗੁ ਨ ਮੀਠੇ ਬੈਣਾ ॥
ਸਹਜਿ ਸੀਗਾਰ ਕਾਮਣਿ ਕਰਿ ਆਵੈ ॥
ਤਾ ਸੋਹਾਗਣਿ ਜਾ ਕੰਤੈ ਭਾਵੈ ॥
Sabẖ avgaṇ mai guṇ nahī ko▫ī. Ki▫o kar kanṯ milāvā ho▫ī. Nā mai rūp na banke naiṇā. Nā kul dẖang na mīṯẖe baiṇā. Sahj sīgār kāmaṇ kar āvai. Ŧā sohagaṇ jā kanṯai bẖāvai.

I am total without virtue; I have no virtue at all. How can I meet my Husband God? I have no beauty, no enticing eyes. I do not have a noble family, good manners, or a sweet voice. The soul-bride adorns herself with peace and poise (4rth state). But she is a happy soul-bride, only if her Husband God is pleased with her. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Suhi, AGGS, Page, 750

ਜਾ ਕੈ ਰੂਪੁ ਨਾਹੀ ਜਾਤਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਨਾਹੀ ਮੁਖੁ ਮਾਸਾ ॥ 
ਸਤਿਗੁਰਿ ਮਿਲੇ ਨਿਰੰਜਨੁ ਪਾਇਆ ਤੇਰੈ ਨਾਮਿ ਹੈ ਨਿਵਾਸਾ ॥
Jā kai rūp nāhī jāṯ nāhī nāhī mukẖ māsā. Saṯgur mile niranjan pā▫i▫ā ṯerai nām hai nivāsā.

One who has no beauty, no social status, no mouth, no flesh - meeting with the True Guru, he finds the Immaculate God and dwells in Your Name. -----Guru Nanak, Raag Parbhati, AGGS, Page, 1328-9

ਜਿਨਿ ਸਿਸਟਿ ਸਾਜੀ ਸੋਈ ਹਰਿ ਜਾਣੈ ਤਾ ਕਾ ਰੂਪੁ ਅਪਾਰੋ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਆਪੇ ਵੇਖਿ ਹਰਿ ਬਿਗਸੈ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਬ੍ਰਹਮ ਬੀਚਾਰੋ ॥੪॥੩॥੧੪॥
Jin sisat sājī so▫ī har jāṇai ṯā kā rūp apāro. Nānak āpe vekẖ har bigsai gurmukẖ barahm bīcẖāro. 

The Creator of the Universe, which created the creation alone knows Its incomparable beauty. O Nanak, the God Itself gazes upon it and is pleased. The Guru oriented contemplates God.   ------Guru Ram Das, Raag Suhi, AGGS, Page, 736-2

ਅਗਮ ਰੂਪੁ ਗੋਬਿੰਦ ਕਾ ਅਨਿਕ ਨਾਮ ਅਪਾਰ ॥
ਧਨੁ ਧੰਨੁ ਤੇ ਜਨ ਨਾਨਕਾ ਜਿਨ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮਾ ਉਰਿ ਧਾਰ ॥੪॥੧॥
Agam rūp gobinḏ kā anik nām apār. Ḏẖan ḏẖan ṯe jan nānkā jin har nāmā ur ḏẖār. 

The beauty of the Creator of the Universe is profound and unfathomable; the Names of the Infinite God are innumerable. Blessed, blessed are those humble beings, O Nanak, who enshrine God's Name in their hearts. -----Guru Arjun, Raag Mali Gaurha, AGGS, Page, 986-12

ਜੋ ਦੀਸੈ ਸੋ ਤੇਰਾ ਰੂਪੁ ॥ 
ਗੁਣ ਨਿਧਾਨ ਗੋਵਿੰਦ ਅਨੂਪ ॥
Jo ḏīsai so ṯerā rūp. Guṇ niḏẖān govinḏ anūp.

Whatever is seen is your form (ਸਰਗੁਣ), O, a treasure of virtue, Creator of the Universe, and of incomparable beauty. -----Guru Arjun, Raag Tilang, AGGS, Page, 724-2

While the physical beauty is false, temporary, cannot help the individual to obtain God, and has consequences:
ਰਾਜ ਰੰਗ ਰੂਪ ਸਭਿ ਕੂਰ ॥ 
ਨਾਮ ਬਿਨਾ ਹੋਇ ਜਾਸੀ ਧੂਰ ॥੨॥
Rāj rang rūp sabẖ kūr. Nām binā ho▫e jāsī ḏẖūr. 

Power, pleasures, and beauty are all false. Without the Name of the God, everything is reduced to dust-----Guru Arjun, Raag, AGGS, Page, 888-13

ਰੂਪ ਰੰਗ ਖੁਸੀਆ ਮਨ ਭੋਗਣ ਤੇ ਤੇ ਛਿਦ੍ਰ ਵਿਕਾਰਾ ॥ 
ਹਰਿ ਕਾ ਨਾਮੁ ਨਿਧਾਨੁ ਕਲਿਆਣਾ ਸੂਖ ਸਹਜੁ ਇਹੁ ਸਾਰਾ ॥੨॥
Rūp rang kẖusī▫ā man bẖogaṇ ṯe ṯe cẖẖiḏar vikārā. Har kā nām niḏẖān kali▫āṇā sūkẖ sahj ih sārā. ||2||

The mind's pleasures of love and beauty bring just as many blame and sins. The Name of the God is the treasure of Emancipation; it is absolute peace and poise.-----Guru Arjun, Raag Maru, AGGS, Page, 1003-11
ਗੁਨੁ ਅਵਗਨੁ ਮੇਰੋ ਕਛੁ ਨ ਬੀਚਾਰੋ ॥
ਨਹ ਦੇਖਿਓ ਰੂਪ ਰੰਗ ਸੀਗਾਰੋ ॥ 
ਚਜ ਅਚਾਰ ਕਿਛੁ ਬਿਧਿ ਨਹੀ ਜਾਨੀ ॥
 ਬਾਹ ਪਕਰਿ ਪ੍ਰਿਅ ਸੇਜੈ ਆਨੀ ॥੧॥
Gun avgan mero kacẖẖ na bīcẖāro.Nah ḏekẖi▫o rūp rang sīʼngāro. Cẖaj acẖār kicẖẖ biḏẖ nahī jānī. Bāh pakar pari▫a sejai ānī. 
 
God does not consider my merits or demerits. God does not look at my beauty, color, or decorations. I do not know the ways of wisdom and good conduct. But taking me by the arm, my Husband God has led me to Its Bed.  -----Guru Arjun, Raag Asa, AGGS, Page, 372-7

Conclusion:

When beauty is sought for pleasure and not from devotional love, it degrades the seeker. Spirituality exists wherever we struggle with the issue of how our lives fit into the greater cosmic scheme of things of Mother Nature (ਸਰਗੁਣ). These questions never give way to specific answers or give rise to specific practices to control the 5 vices and develop virtues. We debate spiritual issues every time we wonder where the universe comes from, why we are here, or what happens when we die/reincarnation, etc. We also become spiritual when we become moved by values such as beauty, love, or creativity that seem to reveal a Higher Power beyond our visible world. The practice of faith reveals our personal desire to establish a felt-relationship with the deepest meanings or powers governing life.
                                                   
ਜਨ ਨਾਨਕ ਕੈ ਮਨਿ ਅਨਦੁ ਹੋਤ ਹੈ ਹਰਿ ਦਰਸਨੁ ਨਿਮਖ ਦਿਖਾਈ ॥
ਨਿਜ ਭਗਤੀ ਸੀਲਵੰਤੀ ਨਾਰਿ ॥
ਰੂਪਿ ਅਨੂਪ ਪੂਰੀ ਆਚਾਰਿ ॥
ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਪਾਈ ਕਿਨੈ ਵਿਰਲੈ ਜੰਤਾ ॥
Jan Nānak kai man anaḏ hoṯ hai har ḏarsan nimakẖ ḏikẖā▫ī. Nij bẖagṯī sīlvanṯī nār. Rūp anūp pūrī ācẖār. Jiṯ garihi vasai so garihu sobẖāvanṯā. Gurmukẖ pā▫ī kinai virlai janṯā.

Servant Nanak's mind is filled with bliss, when he beholds the Blessed Vision of God, even for an instant. The bride shows such special devotion and has such an agreeable disposition. Her beauty is incomparable, and her character is perfect. The house in which she dwells is such a praiseworthy house. But rare are those who, as Guru oriented, who attain that state. -----Guru Arjun, Raag Asa, AGGS, Page, 370